Hi gang...just wondering what the best websites are for meeting REAL bisexual males and couples are? Far too many seem to be either 100% gay oriented or just full of lurkers. I'm a member of silverdaddies.com but I really want something at it's core is dedicated to bisexual men and bisexual couples. Any suggestions? :afro: PS: Please don't say craigslist, aff, or POF....I'm not looking for a hookup, bootycall, or prostitute...I want to meet real people...a real community for bisexual adults....cheers!
Dude, You are in for a very, very long and possibly tedious search. Sexual orientation alone does not provide for enough cohesion to create anything that anyone can call a "real community" by any stretch of imagination. There is no "real" gay community either just as there is no community of all the people who have blue eyes on the net or anywhere else for that matter. The sense of real community can be felt in smaller units organized along side a shared, if not a very common feature. Say, guys who are into BDSM. Or bi-couples who play only with other bi-couples. KD
I know what you mean - there's a need for good bisexual sites - looking for them was how I found this one. Let me know u find some good ones Simon :sunny:
At least you don't have to worry about Eharmony. It's such a homophobic site that only caters to the breeders.
Calling someone/something homophobic and referring to straight people as "Breeders" makes you sound hetrophobic. Just saying. I'd say skip the internet altogether. I know, I know, 1 in 5 relationships start online these days, but there's still nothing stopping you from venturing out and trying to experience actual human contact first when looking for a relationship. I'd suggest checking out your local LGBT organizations for brunches and social events, lots of bi guys and gals come out to these.
I agree with Bidurham. Sex is very personal. Best thing is to collect your contacts either locally( yes even Craig's list) and create your own group to discuss your feelings in an open honest manner.
KinkBorg, if i understood you correctly you are actually looking for a polyamorous/polygamous couple or a possible married bi-guy to date? If that is the case here's some suggestions. For dating and hooking up most polyamorous couples looking for an unicorn (a bi male or a bi female to date or live with them) or a boyfried to the hubby, use a dating service called okcupid.com - it's the only dating service where you can and will be matched with suitable couples/bi-guys. Also, you could try searching webforums that are dedicated to polyamory or polygamous people - perhaps also swingers, depending on what might be closest to you. Also try finding closest active polyamory group, one that's arranging polymeetings and such. And no, polymeetings aren't usually meant for picking up partners, but you they do offer the possibility to get to know people. Best of luck!
