If anyone can help me out at all here I'd be so greatful. Any non-psychic advice would also be great. Well. I feel lost. I work hard and I rarely get to play. I'm distracted at one place of work by this guy that I am extremely attracted to, though I dislike his personality and he makes me incredibly angryat times, I still feel very drawn to him (eg. the first time I saw him I really felt as if we were both supposed to be in that exact place at that exact time, hard to explain). My other place of work is good. Everythings going fine there. I feel like the money I'm earning isn't there. It's like it all just keeps going back into my work ie. clothes for work, shoes for work etc. I feel like I'[m in automatic mode. Like everything I'm doing is just out of routine and habit. I haven't had any love interest for a while (except for that distraction at work). Is there anything of that sort in the near future for me? I think that love would break alot of my old habits and bring alot of greatly needed change to my life. I'm also spiritually confused. Lately my spirit guides have been ignorant and immature, I'd like some seriousness again, I'd like to beable to ask them for advice without them making a joke of it. Well, thats pretty much my situation lol. To anyone that replies- Thanks in advance xo
Maybe life is telling you that you dont need love and seriousness you need some fun. Routine is routine everyone has some of that in thier life... Your spirit guides may be joking, not to be mean or to tease you, but to show you that right now is an oopportunity to not be serious and to have alittle fun! Get out of the house! Grab that guy whos personality is somewhat annoying and go out! Do some dancing or something... If it is only a physical attraction then make it only that. Dont treat him like you want to be in a relationship with him cause you dont! Enjoy being attracted to him, maybe have alil fling... I have a fealing once you do this that your "love" life will fall into place as it should.... Have you had any fealings that you just dont want to work at one or eighther of the places you do anymore? It could be time for a change in jobs...... Dats all I got for ya hun I hope this helps a bit... 8)
Leathal's vision is crystal clear, and he's giving you excellent advice, Renee. The spirit guides are playing dumb to "kick you out of the nest." Time to start sorting out the chaos for yourself. This is frequently the way my guides act with me--when they're not being downright annoying. It's good in situations like this to step back and create a mental framework. I'm going to repeat back what you've told us, with a slight twist--we're going to view this as a situation that your guides/the universe have helped bring about for you on purpose. They have put you in a situation where you're bored out of your skull and have no relief, so as to motivate you to look around for some fun. And then they plop you into a situation where you're forced to be with this guy you feel drawn to. Your instincts were absolutely correct about you both needing to be there at that time. It's like they've put you into a toothpaste tube and are squeezing you in the direction they want you to go. Your instincts and awareness are good--but you're hesitant to step out and act on them. This is what your guides are trying to get you to do--when you try to get their guidance, it's like they're telling you, "Duh!! You see as well as we do, what are you asking US for??" LOL Your confidence in your own insights and understanding will increase as you act on your instincts. And it just happens that this guy tends to piss you off big time. When you find yourself in relation to someone you're both attracted to and pissed off by, you can bet that the spirits are arranging some major fun for you--and some major spiritual work. You're going to get to the bottom of why this guy pisses you off, and discover some things about yourself, and learn some new relationship skills...and yeah, the guy is definitely not someone you want to get serious about. Take a clue from your guides--start laughing, the sooner the better. It will be good practice for when the guy pisses you off. As Leathal says, take this opportunity to get to know him and have some fun, and be vigilant to watch where this relationship is taking you spiritually. And about the jobs--what are your actual goals in life? Do you know where you're going in life, and if so, do these jobs take you farther in that direction? You're at a cusp in your life. This is a pivot point, a launching pad for a new phase. Your life is starting to get very interesting. Have fun!
I really like both these responses thanks to both of you. But.. now that you've said I should have some fun with this guy.. well i piss him off too so, lol, i dont know if he'd even go for that. Then if he isn't interested I'd still have to work with him every night and it'd get complicated, wouldn't it? My intincts tell me to go for it, but when I think about it logically, certain things that he does make me think that I wouldn't stand a chance, even just for sex, and that I've got it all wrong. I don't know which way to go? opinions?
Hell Renee, strong emotions are the breadcrumbs on the path. Today I was pissed as hell at my spirit guide--yesterday I loved her. Don't push it, just let it evolve. Don't look for any particular goal--the real goal here is self-discovery. Yes, your instincts say go for it. No, you wouldn't stand a chance. LOL There's much more here than meets the eye. Have no expectations, just talk and watch the results. And keep in touch, dear.
I got another job, so I quit my other job, so i wont be seeing that guy anymore lol. I think its best that way. Still no luck in love though, I'm starting to wonder if I'll ever find anyone. I mean even if I don't find 'Mr.Right' I should atleast have someone in the mean time, buttt nooo. Apparently its too much to ask for someone to care about me =[ But life goes on, and either way I'll still be me and continue on my life path. So its all ok to me, for now anyway, until some other strange thing comes my way lol, that I know the spirit guides are behind. It just bums me out that I dont get to be as happy as I could be at the moment .. *sigh* much love xo
Then you've shown that you're strong and in no need of a lesson in that department. Good for you. Are you really 16 years old? Well if that's true, you're not exactly an old maid then, are you? I'm 54, and unlucky in love. Think about THAT. LOL When I was 16 I still had two to three girlfriends and two wives yet to come. I'm still looking for MY soulmate. You have so much time ahead of you--and anyway, I see a light on the horizon for you. Your attitude is pretty good--just hold on. Anyway miss renee, I care about you--even if I'm just a decrepit old geezer with one foot in the grave and the other in a vodka bottle. LOL And there are probably more than you know about who care about you also. EXACTLY. I keep telling my spirit guides, "I know that I'm responsible for my own happiness, but I don't want happiness, dammit--I want a woman!" LOL This is probably the same reason I ended up in my current relationship... I recommend patience for both of us--but I'll ask my guides to make your wait shorter than mine.
aww. lol you dont have to do that for me, u are right about me having alot of time.. and. well I met this guy lol- over the internet which isnt the best BUT we are like the same person! We have ALL the same likes and dislikes, sense of humor and I swear our thoughts are completely in sync. It a little weird tho lol. Do u have any idea what it could be? I may be asking a bit much here. I am totally happy with my situation at the moment, and I literally love this guy (not inlove with him.. yet anyway). And we havent even known eachother for a week! I felt like I knew him the second we started talking tho! Its kinda hard to explain.. and it's a bit scary lol. Comments?? hehe Much love xoxoxo
I am always so impressed with your advice zen! Much love to ya bro ! Miss Renee Sorry I havent kept up with this thread. I kept seeing the last person posting as zen and I thought it had went dead! I am very glad to see that some of your questions with life have been going so well for you miss renee. As far as your new potential man... I think it is alittle light that has been given to you(Just as Zen had said)... The right one? Your soul-mate? Although I have been wrong before I would say probably not, but alittle bit of light to remind you that you are wanted by the opposite sex. I would still say to just let everything run its natural course. Dont get to caught up in trying to keep this guy around and to really do some reflection on the things that you ABSOLUTLY want and feal a need for. Companionship is something that almost everyone wants, but when this becomes an obsession that is when it can be dangerous. So keep listening to what your guides are saying. Ask them if this is someone that you should put alot of effort in.... He has been brought into your life for a reason now its time to figure out why... Ask them to show you a sign and if you listen and pay attention enough im sure they will. Quote: Originally Posted by miss renee Still no luck in love though, I'm starting to wonder if I'll ever find anyone. I mean even if I don't find 'Mr.Right' I should atleast have someone in the mean time, buttt nooo. Apparently its too much to ask for someone to care about me =[ I CARE ABOUT YOU ! *HUGS* MUCHO LOVE CHICA!
Likewise from me, Leathal. Hey, tell Lake Michigan "hi" for me next time you two get together. LOL I'm glad you showed up here to let Miss Renee know I wasn't lying about other folks caring about her.
Ill tell the ole girl you said hiiiigh for sure.... Shell definetly hear it from me too we are good friends. I have always said that humans are capable of abounding love. Enough that you could love every single person you have ever come in contact with, (although that is highly unlikly lol,) and still have more to give. people just block that part of thier brain out in todays society ya know? Everyone wants to be "cool" and "fly" and love just doesnt seem to be something that the masses promote as "cool" anymore... And why not? Miss Renee we both hope to hear from you soon on your situations. Anytime you wna talk if not to the masses feal free to Pm me also. 8) *SMILE*
