Quick question I need answered.....

Okay, now, I consider myself a 100% heterosexual male, but if the topic of using a strap on came up, & I agreed to it mainly because I was also promised something out of it, would I be going against my principles & would there be anything wrong with that?

This question is running through my mind at the moment & I'd just like a sensible answer to it.

 

no. i used to tell my ex all the time that if he wanted anal from me he was going to have to let me fuck him with a strap on. He never did, but the moral of the story is...strap ons do not make you gay.

 

Is there another man involved?
Did you really even need to ask this?


In fact, not trying it because you don't want to seem gay sounds way gayer than doing it.

 

if a lesbian fucks another lesbian with a strap on , is the receiver then straight?...

 

@Duck, I only asked because I wanted other people's opinions on the subject, & no, there is no other guy involved, nor does this have to really do with me wanting to do anal with a girl.

 

Wow, that is the perfect way to put it in perspective. :2thumbsup:


Even still, no one is going anywhere near my ass with a penis, a strap-on, or anything else they intent to penetrate with, not because I fear it will make me gay, but because I don't want anything going into my poop-chute.

 

Would anal with a girl be gay?

Why do other people's opinions matter?
Are we invited to bed with you?

 

You make a good point, I suppose.

 

If you're not comfy with it, say so and put the relationship on the line. It's your way or the highway, dude.

 

Only if she insisted you call her George while the act was being performed. Or you decided to call her George while the act was being performed. That would be definitely be crossing the line into Gay territory.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

No, it'd be more like a "let's get it over with" kind of thing. Nothing that would be overly drawn out, you know?

 

Okay, let's just hypothetically say money is involved. My options are either to do it & get it over with & take what was offered to me, then not really think about it & move on or ignore the entire situation & move on anyway.

Would it really be that bad to choose the first option if it's just a one time thing?

 

Then you'd just be a Ho. Nothing wrong with it Hoes need love too.

Stay Brown,
Rev J

 

Interesting question by the original poster . . .

I have to admit that if my wife wanted to fuck me with a strap on, I would probably let her do it -- and I wouldn't have any feelings that the act made me "gay" in any way. Any females here ever do this to their guy?

 

i have read many of these 'strap-on' threads..so many that i already know who is going to say they love it when their old lady fucks them in the ass with a strap-on....not me...no fucking way am i going to let a lady fuck me in my butt with a strap-on...call me old fashioned,call me a prude...not gonna happen...also...they look fucking ridiculous...dont think i could stop laughing if i saw a babe wearing one...the sensible answer is that you are [my opinion] an idiot if you let her do this

 

Can you afford not to?

I say go for it.

 

It wouldn't be a bad choice doing it any number of times. It is a whorish thing to do, but what's wrong with that? Win-win for all involved! Money for you, penetration for the other. If the money's good, I'd do it (heck, I'd try it anyway).

 

As long as you don't mind said girl being drunk at a bar later in life with a group of friends and telling everyone how well you take it in the ass.

Then no... no problem at all.

 

if the money's good, i see no downside. well except the ass pain, but you know what i mean.

unless you really enjoy it...

 

I've never really considered a strap on to be for Straight usage anyway, rather than a substitute male when it comes to Lesbian sex.

I've never had any problems with what gets anyone off sexually, so long as it's legal & doesn't harm anyone, but I simply cannot see the appeal of a woman using a strap on on a man - that is, of course, unless the strap on is of the 2-way type, thus giving some degree of Vaginal Stimulation to the woman. Otherwise it's only the male that's getting anything out of it with Prostate Stimulation.