Dear Lesbians I have a question for ya'll, would you date a transexual (transman mostly)? Second question would the circumstance change if you've been dating that partner for a few years previous to the changes? Please answer honestly, thanks.
If my girlfriend wanted to change, it wouldn't change my feelings for her. I love her. Would I miss certain aspects on the sex side, yes. But I love her and would support her.
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i couldn't. i've tried dating for love not the sexual orientation or gender thing. it didn't work so well. despite being head over heels emotionally in love with a guy, i just couldn't deal with the genitals thing. that, and he's not a woman. it just didn't feel right. i can't explain it. and even if he transitioned to a woman (which isn't something he was interested in, but even if he had been), including all surgeries and everything... i still don't think i could date him. there is something about each person's energy that i react to. with him, it was close enough to pretend for a little while. but i just don't feel like i am able to date someone who is, wants to be, or has ever been a man. it's just not in my dna i guess. i feel bad, because on an intellectual and emotional level, i am able to handle "variances" in the set ideal of "normal." i love people who don't fit into the "normal" stereotype. i just can't have relationships with people who aren't all woman, physically, mentally, emotionally, etc. maybe someday that will change for me. but i know and am honest enough with myself to realize that at this point in my life, i'm simply not capable of being in that type of a relationship.
Thats alright though, everyone deserves to be happy, no one should suffer for someone elses happiness.
If I was already in love with the person , I probably could. Sex ?...at my age it kinda takes a back seat to the other emotions in the relationship.
would i date a transexual? yes. would it change if i had been with the person previous to the change? no.
Hmm.. transexual? I am not sure.. I am lesbian because I love woman.. But if i have a girl friend (who I love very much), I will support her decision and will always love her
I could date a transwoman. But I don't think I don't think I could date a transman. But I've never tried.
