Question for the guys on a "Fuck Buddy" relationship

So i've known this guy for almost 2 years, we used to work together. And the first time we hooked up was a crazy night late in february of this year. He is older, about 5 years older and i was drunk and i refused to have ACTUAL sex with him, so we just fooled around. And then in mid May we did it again, after not really speaking much at all since that last time accept for maybe 1 or 2 text conversations. Yet again i was drunk, still didn't have sex, but we did everything else in the book.
I'm just curious about this, how does this kind of thing work, it is odd to me in a way, cause i'm not a guy and don't think with my dick.

So guys, explain the fuck buddy fling, just for fun thing to me. Is it as simple as that, just pleasure, and thats it?
Explain to me why you would do something like that?

 

If that is what "you" want or "both" want then it has to be put on the table...so everyone involved knows its a fuck buddy fling.....but usually feeling do eventually get involved and complicates everything...so when one person does become more emotionally involved with the relationship then that person has have the responsibility to confront the other person and see what happens...at that time both of you could be in love or whatever...but the point is.......it is your responsibility as a mature adult in the situation to handle it....I'm a guy so the idea of being able to have sex with a girl any time I want is like gods gift from heaven.....but as the horror stories are told if it is too good to be true then it probably is

 

Well, i wouldn't say i think with my dick, but i have a 'fuck buddy'. How it started was both of us were single at the time, at a bar, just bullshitting about how it had been a while since either of us had gotten any action. One thing lead to another and we had sex that night. We never talked about the rules or anything, but it elevated into a thing where we would go out to eat or something normal for friends to do every saturday, mess around afterwards and go home. We still carry on as friends as normal, and none of our other mutual friends know. If either of us are seeing someone we just don't fuck after dinner, simple as that.

As for why....why not? It is fun and enjoyable for both of us, no feelings are hurt, just good old fashioned fun and relief. Now, it doesn't even come close to having intense passionate sex with someone you love, and i will admit i am not putting 100% like i do with someone i really care about, but it is still a good time.

This is the first time i really sat down and thought about why to be honest, it has been going on for about a year or so, and it just seems like part of the weekly routine i guess. Hope this helped!

 

my honest opinion - never a good idea

 

Some guys just don't want to be burdoned with a relationship, but every guy has urges and wants them satified. I have a few fuck buddies, but all are clear that fucking is all it is. My first sex was with a fuck buddy, I was 16 when I developed a crush on my friend's mum. She figured it out after a while and would flirt with me. This led to us becoming friends so to speak and when we were alone she would flirt, give me a glimpse of her cleavage of legs now and again. Once I was 18 we began fucking. I found myself alone with her one day and we began fooling around and soon enough we were on the kitchen floor with my dick in her pussy. We are still friends and speak about alot, her family take it that we had this friendship for a while but we do get together for a fuck as well. We have a great friendship, we can talk about anything and we have great sex too.

I must admit I am cynical to relationships, I was messed about for a year and half and said never again. In that year and a half I had stopped all fuck buddy relationships, but as soon as the relationship was over I was in her arms and we ended up fucking again.

But like everyone says it must be clear that thats all it is.

 

It isn't just guys who are into the fuck buddy thing. I've had several fuck buddies and like the idea of no emotional attachment. I like sex but you don't have to be in love or even a relationship to have great sex. I love sex but I haven't been ready for a relationship. I don't even know their last names nor do I want to. If they start getting attached I end it.

 

The concept is interesting but in my experience, girls are not enthused about it; they like to exact something from the guys they give booty. But then they're African