I am so frustrated. My girlfriend and I have great sex but it has become less frequent over the year that we have been together. It used to be 2-3 times a week for the first 3 months, then once a week for a couple months, then couple times a month and now its like once a month or twice a month at the most. I ask her why, she says her sex drive is low because of her meds, she also was sexually abused as a child. So was I, unfortunately. I feel so rejected. She is completely unwilling to compromise on this with me. She loves it after we do it, its just always got to be her decision. I can never ask for it, initiate it or get it anymore when I want it. Probably due to the fact that I have had a fit over this situation more than once. Then she gets pissed and withholds.But we are very much in love and plan on being together for a long time. She's 23 btw and I'm 42. Any advice please? Don't say LBD, cuz it ain't that.