me and my girlfriend are planning on getting together and she wants to perform oral on me. it will both of our first times recieving and giving oral but as for my question...do most women like for men to cum in their mouth, or do they prefer men to wear a condom?
Well... personally, I think a condom would be weird. If you guys aren't sure about each other and where you've been or whatever,though, it wouldn't be a bad idea. It depends on the girl. I recommend swallowing, because it seems to get the taste out of your mouth a little quicker. Good luck. If you do want to use a condom, btw, they make special oral sex condoms. They're not as thick or whatever, so you're that much closer to the person and can feel it a little better than with a regular condom. I think they're flavored, too. You can order them online.
Hmm condom for safety reasons is a good idea, but not so good on feeling, you need to decide that for yourself. If you are going to have unprotected oral sex, then it might be a good idea to ask her what she wants to do when you cum, as well as giving her ample warning that you are cumming so that she can make up her own mind about getting out the way or swallowing your boi-juice
Your girlfriend is probably not going to like sucking a condom! Now, if this is your first times, and she has never come in contact with semen before, it might take some getting used to for her. Like Retro said, talk about it beforehand, tell her what comes out and about how much, and tell her that you think it ought to be up to her what to do with it when it happens. It's only fair, and it will also show her that you care about her. (Unless she's not into that sort of thing.) She can spit, swallow, or get completely out of the way, and you should make sure to appear content with whichever one. (Chances are your mind will be so blown from your first blowjob that you won't care much about what she does with your come.) Just be reassuring, and do give her notice when it is going to happen so she can get ready. She'll probably groove really hard on the fact that she made it happen (don't let her know that just about anything can make a guy come LOL!) If you're both virgins, I guess there is little to no disease worry. If you like the experience, both of you, stay together for as long as you can and explore as much of being together as you can, because after this, it's all about "gee, who were you with before and what did you pick up along the way?" and it is a serious buzzkill the older you get and the more partners both of you have had. You know, it's funny to me that you didn't ask for tips about licking her. Lots of guys seem lost in that department (and some of us were just so hot to do it that we were 'naturals') and ask around places like this for "the secret" (as if there is one single secret). I guess you're confident enough about that -- which is great! When you're doing that, I think it'd be good to occasionally tell her how much you like it, and how hot licking her makes you (provided it does and you have the erection to prove it). If she's self-conscious about being licked there but she hears you talk about it like it's heavenly, she can relax more and be that much more likely to orgasm. Smile, moan, and be happy. It is heavenly. Blue skies, -Jeffrey
it's all about hi-Jean. if you're clean and she's clean, no problems. but condoms for oral? no way! if I couldn't give oral to a girl it would drive me crazy. for me it's natural. and i love to receive it too but it ain't a relationship breaking issue.
If doing oral sex needs a condom then its no oral for me, gag, no thanks. Flavored or not there is no way it could be the same for either person. If your not sure they are clean then don't do it in the first place.
I would much rather have a guy come in my mouth (I prefer that actually), than for him to wear a condom. They do taste yucky. However, definately ask her. If you don't get around to asking her, and the time 'comes' around...haha, no pun inteded, then before you come ask her where she wants it...or she can just spit. But you should give her some warning, you don't want the poor girl to gag on your juices.
you could slam my dick in a car door while wearing a condom and I wouldn't feel it, as for the cuming in the mouth thing, just hold back as long as you can and when you are ready let her know, if she wants it in her mouth she will keep going, if not she will stop
exactly...just ask her which she would prefer. if she doesn't like the idea of you cuming in her mouth just tell her your almost there and let her finish you off with a wank. simple as.
ive swallowed my first at 14, and been doing it since. its easier and the taste is okay with me. just ask her.
