alright... im not thinking of losing my virginity ANY time soon, im only 16. but i was just wondering... when you have sex for the first time, do you MOST DEFINATELY bleed like all over the place? or just a little? or what? and ive masturbated and been fingered pretty hard over the years, sooo could the thingy that needed to be broken be broken already??? also, how long do you have to take birth control pills for them to "kick in" or whatever? im not going to be having sex anytime too soon, but i figure, when it happens, i want to be prepared, and have birth control pills and all of that... thanks so much!!