Quality vs. Quantity

For those of you gifted to do both, I envy you.

For most people it's one or the other.

By quantity I mean you have sex every day or more.

Personally because I'm in University 7 months of the year, I like only having sex twice a week.

Come the off season I have sex 3-4 times a week.

I like to put in a lot of effort in setting the mood, considerable amount of foreplay and sex the way I do it lasts to the point where I am physically spent.

So if I did it every day I think I wouldn't be as well focused if you catch my drift.

Some buddies of mine are more into fucking in which case they just like to get off, usually every day.

Thoughts?

 

2-4 times a week for normal level 1 sex, probably 1/4 of those turn into intermediate level 2 sex, and on weekends we go for the advanced level 3 and above, usually several times.

 

What......the fuck?

lol

You have levels????

WHAT IS YOUR SECRET???

 

:lol:

Levels seemed like a good way to express it.

Level 1 = A general sort of "lets help each other relax after a long day" type of sex. No toys, missionary, under the covers, lights probably off and Im not getting a BJ.

Level 2 = More of a "lets help each other relax, but we dont have to get up tommorow so lets take some time to enjoy it" type of sex. Maybe some mild toys, lights on, everyone gets oral, multiple positions and more than 2 orgasms. Maybe drag the full length mirror over...

Level 3 = "lets take our time doing all kinds of awesomely nasty stuff to get each other off as intensely as we can, multiple times" sex.

:cheers2:

 

I like quality, I had a gf where the sex just wasn't great but we got busy all the time, I felt like I was going to work.

 

Both and thankfully I get to have it.

 

Sometimes I tell my boyfriend I just want it quick, fast, and hard. Other times, we set aside a block of time to do it right. Sometimes we make it sweet and romantic, and sometimes it's more like creative hardcore. It seems to me that my very best intense fucks come about once every two weeks, but I want the basics many times in between.

 

My first real girlfriend, she calculated we had sex 41 times in our first 2 weeks of going out. We had sex multiple times every day and night, and it was definitely quality. I got a life times worth of experience.

 

I hope that the girl would agree.

 

If i had to choose betweent the two it would have to be quality, nothing like having great sex but since i am lucky enough to have a gf that i can have both im pretty happy