Ok bear with me, this is a little strange- I have this kink sort of like BDSM (or Slave and Master, but only the punish part) but not a lifestyle thing. I really love the idea of being 'punished' something along the lines of 'You left the toothpaste out and now you're getting a spanking' kind of thing. Just more rough and graphic. Like pain and humiliation in some sort of sexual punishment. So I have a few questions I'm hoping someone could answer: Firstly, is there an actual name for this kink? I've seen some of it under BDSM or humiliation, or maledom, but I'd love to be able to google it and find what I'm looking for. Secondly, my boyfriend and I are starting to explore more kinky stuff, but I'm having a hard time explaining exactly what I like to him and he's afraid of hurting me. How can I encourage him to slap my tits or spank my pussy for some real or imaginary 'crime'? And lastly, does anyone have any punishment ideas? I think it'd be easier to convince him if I have some specific ideas. Like if I don't do the dishes what punishment do I get ect? Thank you! Sorry this is kind of strange.