It is my perception that gay men even of they are in a relationship they are open relationship. I have known some monogamous gay men but they are in the minority. Lesbians and bi-women appear to me to be generally monogamous. Tell me if I am right or wrong..
I don’t think I qualify as gay but who knows? In my relationship with my transgender girlfriend I am as devoted and as monogamous as is humanly possible. I have stopped looking at porn or other women. She owns all the real estate in my head. I wonder how long this can continue?
I have always followed the thought that if a person is in a committed relationship, then have enough integrity to live by your commitment. If I'm attached and feel the need to play the field...then I've lost my desire for the other person in the relationship and it's time to move on. Cheating on someone who trusts you is...shitty in my opinion. Personally, I'm a very independent minded person and I don't really feel the need to be in relationships to begin with. Getting me to commit to the idea that I'm in a monogamous relationship would be quite a feat and would take someone who is very special. Until that happens...I'm promiscuous!
Nah I’m very jealous and guarded I told my boyfriend I was a psycho from the start so he knew what I was like, I wanted to pair bond and women weren’t a option to do that for me most relationships women wanted with me was short term fun all of which I rejected it would have been a huge ego boost to but I knew I’d probably severely damage my mind if I had a one night stand with anybody
