Okay, so maybe 5 threads is a bit too much... Figured to post all my problems here instead. (so yeah maybe someone could like close all the other threads or smt) First problem, how do I get my boyfriend to spank me? I can bet all he wants is sex, even though he keeps saying he dont want that, yet! And the biggest issue in this problem is that his parents are always home and I suppose thats why he wont do it, but where else can we do it? Any suggestions? And should I just tell him to spank me, cuz he doesnt seem to get my hints at all. Second problem, how do I get my BF to get more interested in me? I'm really shy n such so everytime he asks what I wanna do I just say "dunno". I bet he knows exactly what I want, but idk. And also, if my dog is around all he cares abt is the dog, its like I dont exist. And my dog does everything to get me jealous too. Third problem, I have told my BF that I'm scared to have sex. And I suppose he misunderstood me or smt, cuz he just wanna take baby steps now. Yes I want sex, everytime I bring it up he says no, I only want to have it to see if I really do dislike it or maybe I'd get a whole new vision abt it, I just wanna know. So how to get him to understand? Everytime I try to explain it I feel like he just wont listen.
lol, I don`t even consider him your bf yet until he pops your cherry. But, I guess your own opinion is what matters.
LMAO!! I am sorry you are having problems....but you cant make up this kinda entertainment... too funny
Be ready for lots of pain. Think of it as practice for giving birth and you may not be so discouraged. :biggrin:
Yh I like all that stuff. But I love horse riding more, but yh it costs money so thats not an option.
Do you share those interests with your boyfriend ? Are there times were you're having fun together ? Sounds like you need to spend time, bond and get comfortable with each other, share interests and thoughts, talk.. Aren't you comfortable around him ? If not you should probably move on. You seem to be going through a difficult period. Is it really about your bf ? Or aren't you just overall unhappy ? Maybe you just need time for yourself, reading books, listenning to music, smoking weed (that may help you relax and get some introspection, allow you to think about sad stuffs in a more peaceful way, or just to forget about it for a moment), discovering new activities, peoples, places. Don't burry yourself in your troubles, explore your environment, your self. Maybe I just didn't understand your problem at all, but I read your posts on the spank, love and this topics, and you sound like in trouble understanding yourself and managing things that are happening these days
Well I've tried to share things w him, but he just sit there n laughs at everything I say. I can say I love you n he just laughs. so no I'm not comfy around him since he make me feel like a big fuckin joke. Yeah tried some time for myself, almost killed myself. Yh I wanna do things but everything costs money n dogs r oftenly not allowed either.
