To put it gently I have a large amount of issues in the bedroom I would love to take care of: I have been sexually active since oct 13th with the same girl. Before sex I am always hard... always, then once we get down to it and it seems almost like I start to lose my erection when Im in her. She is pretty tight, and she turns me on completely. So once I get her off, I pull out to switch up positions and my semi hard dick cant really push in because its to limp. So far I am contributing it to: -Not having the lights turned off (I always seem to perform better in the dark, not sure way, I am perfectly comfortable with my girl) -Since I have trained my dick to get off a certain way through dry masturbation (Ten years and counting). I think im not making it to be stroked right when im inside of her to be fully turned on. For example, for me to get off its either has to be through hand stimulation, or for us to be in missionary postion I have to move her over my dick much rather than me moving into her. This leads into my second problem You can call me only being able to get off by two ways my second problem but we will skip that for now. Near the beggining of November we starting having sex like any other night in the missionary postion when I felt a tingle in my dick. I pull out and found my forskin was pulled back to where it revealed my head. To make a long story short, it happens about once a sexual night now. It sucks, because if I am hard this happens when we try new positions. There is always a problem. She thinks its her, I know its me and basically sex always ends up with both of us wanting to go to sleep and just forget about it. A few added questions, will a circumsizion help me ejaculate faster/easier? Will it clear up that hard on issue? And obviously it will help my foreskin issue. Can be this verified. Also as a side note ** I dont do drugs (smoked alot of weed all summer), drink coffee, I am physically fit with what I would assume be high testostorone levels and I do smoke occasionally. I really need alot of help to understanding all these problems, and to hopefully get my sex life straightened out. Thanks for all your help, zero2sixty
When you say your foreskin tingles, does it hurt? Do you ever try to just keep going when the forskin is fully retracted inside your girlfriend? Tiffany
It doesnt tingle, or even hurt. It is just really uncomfortable. Yeah ive tried to keep going while inside of her.
I tend to agree it is probably anxiety about pleasing her. Circumcision(sp?) will make you less sensitive, so theoretically you would climax not sooner but later. Have you tried the "cowgirl"/girl on top position? BTW, this is what I thought the foreskin did -- isn't it supposed to pull back to reveal the head once you get really aroused? I may not be a dick owner but I am kind of an experienced dick "operator" and that seems normal to me.
