i have a boyfriend and i'm attracted to him.. but i seriously have no sex drive. like, making out is nice and all but when it comes time to do the deed i juist feel like laying there and doing nothing... he's been away the past 2 months working and i haven't missed sex at all.. which makes me feel weird because when my friend's guy left for 2 weeks she practically freaked out she got so horny! hahah, i know it sounds weird.. but yeah.. what's wrong with me?
Nothing is necessarily wrong. Everyone has varying sex drives, and on top of that, they vary a lot. Mine decreased for a while, went back up, went down... quite variable. I guess the other question though is is this how you always feel, or do you sometimes get quite horny but just not over him?