Hey Everyone, I got into a new relationship and ive reached a problem. My girl isnt like my previous relationships when it comes to sex. My prior relationships all were great sexually, making love is different. This girl says she cannot have an orgasm from regular sex, we've tried twice and she says it feels good but it doesnt feel like when i finger her, and even when i finger her it only works on the outside. Ive never been a prolbem be4, like i always made my prior lovers orgasm and it was great. But now she says that if it goes on for to long it starts to get uncomfortable, and she says she doesnt feel like its getting close to orgasming. She worries this will be a problem, i love her so i dont think so but i would like to figure out a way to make it work just incase. ANY ADVICE PLZ???
thier are many options: first if you form of protecetion(assuming and hoping you use one) is a condom you should consider doing the test and switching to the pill. I used to have a girl that siad that the condom ruins the feeling for her. and if this doesn't work then theres atmosphere put romantic music in the background tell her how much you love her and start the entire evening with a romantic walk on the coast or something like that. if all this fials maybe she just need to be stimuleted in a special way maybe she gets off better with oral or anal. try everything in bed in the end ou will find what makes her tick hoped i helped
Philly Boi - Only about 25-30% of females can get an orgasm from intercourse alone, and another 25% can get one from intercourse combined with clitoral massage. Another 25% can only get an orgasm from manual stimulation, and the rest seldom or never have an orgasm. It is not your fault, it is the way she is made, but keep trying.
M'boy from Philly; drop down, kissing her all the way, to the level of her pelvis. Ask her to help you by opening her pussy with both her hands. Gently insert your tongue as deeply as you can and start moving it up and down. Take her cheeks (ass, man, ass!) into the palms of your hands to hold her whole body up to your mouth, and keep it there. Slowly work your way up to her clit. Gently nibble on said clit. As it begins to recede, follow it into its secret hiding place. You may have to hover over it's little lair, but gently lick away. As she begins to stir and moan keep going. When she says enough, keep going no matter what. She may move up the bed, over the bed post, down to the floor, across the room and out the door, but stay on her, licking away. At the door, desist. You have probably made her happy! May the gods bless your adventure and smile on your desire to love!
oh man... don't be worried. it's hard to orgasm in front of a new person! it's totally letting go, which can be really difficult. i wouldn't worry about it. definitely keep up the clitoral stimulation - most women can't orgasm from vaginal stimulation alone.
Awesome!!! I wish all men knew this..:drool: If that doesn't work..nothing will.... I once had a guy tell me he had a fetish..Extreme pleasure..He would not stop until his partner was actually climbing the walls.. Too bad he lives so far away...oh well..
My girlfriend can only orgasm from intercourse. Going down on her or manual stimulation, vibrators, dildos-nothing does any good. The only way she has ever had an orgasm is her on top vaginal penetration. To me, it really sucks, foreplay is pretty useless (for her)
Yeah, I know a friend who can't orgasm through intercourse. The key is just not to worry about it and accept that everyone's different, while in the back of your mind set yourself some potential goals for the future
Hey, every woman is different, and this is definitely not your fault, and you shouldn't even consider it a problem...consider it a challenge that will be fun to overcome! I also have a hard time orgasming and my boyfriend thought it was his fault (definitely not). Sex toys worked for me, so I suggest you also try them, after all why not. I love the Jack Rabbit Vibrator at http://healthyandactive.com/vibrators-rabbit-vibrators.html . It also seems like your girlfriend might benefit from some lubricant, that might make it easier and more pleasurable for her. Don't give up - if you really care about each other you'll figure it out. Just be creative and explore options and creative sex toys. Be open to the possibilities!
It's not just women who have problems reaching an orgasm from intercourse. I'm epileptic, and one of the side effects of the meds that I'm on for it, as with many other meds, such as anti depressants & beta blockers, can make it very diffficult to reach a climax. While this can have certain advantages, especially for the woman, as far as endurance is concerned, there does reach a point when you yearn to hit that climactic goal. As things are, the only way I can reach a climax is by masturbating myself - as things are, I've only ever been successfully masturbated to completion by anyone else a couple of times. In order to reach the required orgasm I need full control over the pressure & rate of the masturbatory strokes then once I sense myself approaching the orgasmic brink, I try to return in time to complete the experience while penetrated. It can be a problem to one's ego sometimes, but fortuately all of my partners have been very understanding about it, especially as I explain the problem beforehand, so that they are fully aware that the problem is not with them.
