I write in red today because I am scarred with blood. My boyfriend, whom I carry our child, as a problem with meth. It has been ruining his and also mine for the past 7 years. He is on parole and everytime he gets in trouble meth plays a key role in it. He doesn't think he has a problem at all. When he gets his hands on it, all control is lost. He went to rehab in prison. He even admitted he needed to go while he was in there, but I don't think it helped him at all. I believe in my heart he went to rehab just to pass the time by. I have been clean since we go arrested. I am 300% sure I will never do that again. It litleraly has ruined my life. Now since it is not only my life, but my childs also. I need to get through to him that he can't do it anymore. It is ruins his life everytime he touches it. I love him and I know that people are going to do what they are going to do and you cannot stop that, but I love him with all my heart and I am willing to wait as long as I have to wait for him. I have before. How can I through to him I need help. Please
Make your child your first priority. You don't want him/her to grow up and realise that one of their parents is a drug addict. Things that servere will scar the kid for life. Their like little sponges and take everything in
word drop the boy, find someone who isnt' into drugs and won't get himself sent to jail when his gf is freakin pregnant
Your child needs to be your FIRST priority. No questions asked. You should get him out of your life as soon as possible and do not allow him back into your life untill you know for a fact he has been clean for a very very long time. You shouldn't even have to think about this. Don't let your baby become a part of a meth family.
Children come before ignorant adults any day. You care about your children, and if he did, he would have given it up already. You take your children away, leave him, if he wants to be a good man and clean up for his family, then the ball will be in his court, but you have to make the first most important step for you children.
Hun, under the circumstaces for the sake of both you and your child I think it's time for you to realize that his love for meth is far stronger than his love for either of you or even himself. As a mother to be you need to practice tough love and walk far away untill he has been clean for a major amount of time and shows you he means to stay that way. Besides it will most likely be a condition of both your paroles that you not see each other. In the Haight in the '60s a common slogan was 'Speed Kills' and meth was the speed of which they spoke. Good Luck & HUGS
leave.. but dont forget about him. he is your childs father, not just your partner/expartner. meth might get in the way of being a father figure but the fact remains that half your child is part of him, so just try to keep in touch with this man, maybe if he saw his child growing up without him, he would change his attitude. obviously he wont if all hes got to stop him is common sense. a junkie needs direct connection, for thats what he has with his drug.
dude... who wouldnt want a hole from the roof of their mouth to their nasal cavity.... rock on meth!!!
