Compersion is the total and pure joy one feels from seeing their partner completely satisfied and enjoying sex with others. Compersion take practice and It enhances the whole experience. It frees you of your emotions and jealousy. Read about it. Are there other swingers couples that do this?
I can't talk as being part of a couple but I do get involved with other couples where the husband loves nothing more than seeing his wife satisfied. Whilst completely sexual and sometimes kinky this can often be sensual romantic lovemaking rather than just hot sex. Often the husband will watch and either pleasure himself or takes intimate photos as we pose explicitly for him.
That is what we looked for, all about enjoyment, but not all meetings worked out. My wife was the one who set-up most of our encounters. If she didn't enjoy the man. No matter how much I liked the woman, we never met them again. It was hard to find couples where all 4 matched up. We had a few mfm and mff , and they all worked out best.
I absolutely love to see and know my wife is getting completely satisfied with her lovers. She always has sex with me afterwards. I think it’s better sex for both of us afterwards.
NorCalMan, What you experienced was Compersion. It is a complete letting go of “your” emotional apprehensions toward your wife. It’s totally freeing for her as well. She will not have any mental hang up and will allow herself to be totally immersed in what she is receiving from another lover. PM me here. We can learn from each other.
I occasionally fuck a married friend of mine Who’s hubby is well aware- started out w condoms ( i am snipped and DDF) and became bareback and burying big loads in her.. Hubby loves it and eats her out as soon as she gets home. She says he gets hard knowing we are about to meet as it means he gets some later. Interesting- but works for them!
