All of my friends have ditched me because I dont smoke pot or cigarettes, and i dont drink much....ive drank, but ive NEVER tried one cigg. or smoked pot ever....and it seemslike i fucking have to do that shit just to have friends now, its so fucking lonely,im surprised im not dead yet....what should i do??....i mean i dont want to do that stuff just to have friends, they should like me for me but its so hard for them to want to hang out because i dont get wasted every fucking chance i get like some sad loser...no offense to anyone, but its depressing and i need friends
no - I understand - I have the same problem - even now - at 33 - the minute you say to a room of people getting stoned 'er.. no I'm ok thanks' - you don't get invited again.It's hard - I wouldn't drop people just for smoking pot - the best relationship I have is with a cousin - who is breakfast-sundown pot man.He accepts I drink beer for breakfast - I accept he smokes pot for breakfast - then we realise we're both a couple of losers whatever state of mind wer'e in - and get along fine.If you can honestly get by without going down that road then you stand 50% more chance than the others of doing something constructive with your life.Give - it a try at least - then you can at least say - "I tried it - don't like it' - but remember unfortunately that is probably how 100% of smokers/drinkers start.Some of my friends only smoke at weekends or when they're in a pub - and never get a daily addiction - you'll find this is common too - maybe thats the way you are - if so - it's a good way to be.People like me however have addictive personalities - which can be used to good even in the midst of it's destruction - so it's not all shit
Go find people that are like you. Stop crying that your old friends don't like you just because of stuff you don't do....they aren't really friends in the first place.
haha yeah thanks,,....i mean im gonna try it at least once, but i dont want to do it as much as my friends do because they handle it stupidly and are more immature with it, so i guess that shits expected with high schoolers...they ditch the "clean freaks" and go for the people who smoke and drink, but i mean...im a really paranoid person and its hard for me to keep things to myself because i end up over analyzing it and then get into trouble for saying something about it, so itll be hard for me to even try it once without telling someone who will get me in trouble, but i think i can contain myself a little more than i used to...i keep stuff to myself now, and the people with me...and i hand out with them at school and all, but theyre all so obsessed and i feel left out a little.i dont know
i think you should smoke pot, mostly because you seem like you really need to mellow out. and why don't you want to, even just a few times, anyway? health reasons? you'd have to smoke a LOT, constantly, to notice any health problems at all. i don't see any reason not to try it. i don't think the problem is that you don't smoke or drink because you don't like the feeling, so your friends don't want to be around you. i think they just don't want to hang out with someone so uptight. if you can honestly say, "i have no problem with your personal choice, but i just don't like being high or drunk", i doubt they'll hold it against you. instead of "smoking and drinking are for idiots" or something along those lines.
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G-Bean, now now... i understand how u ye feel, i mean some stoners arent wise, as some sobers aren't wise either. it sucks that they ditched you for more stoners and drinkers... but if ye start talking about potheads being dumb and not having braincells as much as you do... well thats ridiculous. besides you cant be afraid of everything in life, pot is just the easy thing to blame, fast food, video game addictions, caffeine, bad sleeping patterns.. ye know , there are tons of things out there that affects your body and mind much worse then pot...
see, that's probably why your friends don't like you. marijuana doesn't destroy brain cells any more than jumping around on one foot or blowing up a balloon does.
oh and also, the amount of brain cells a person has doesn't determine their intelligence, unless they're severely depleted. how much of your brain do you really use? do you even know?
