This forum can be pretty full on most of the time, so I thought I'd post about something a little lighter. So, who here really enjoys a post sex cuddle? Who here hates them? We all talk about many of our desires here, from anal to choking, to femdom, to watersports. But no matter what the play involves, for me, there's nothing better than wrapping yourself up in your partner afterwards. Whether they are long-term or just a one-nighter. I have OCD and I really don't like most people touching me, so when I'm with someone physical touch can feel quite intense. After sex, in that still moment of quiet contentment, wrapping yourself up in someone else, skin to skin, feeling their warm body on yours, being engulfed by their scent, and tasting their fresh sweat as you bury your head in their neck.. Honestly, that's the thing I miss the most about having a partner of any kind.
I believe that when I was much younger and never had a girlfriend, this was one of the things I missed most. Even when at 21 years of age I decided to see some escorts, if, after the performance, I could stay with them a little longer and cuddle them, I felt better and more satisfied with the experience. It was certainly a fake thing, maybe simulated, but I think it's still a natural thing, something that comes spontaneously. Even with a stranger, because you did something with her that made you feel good and because you are still dealing with a woman, with a person, with a human being. Maybe the situation is fake, but the person is true, she is there near you at that moment. When you are with your partner, with someone with whom you have a stable relationship, it is even better. It is a moment of great tenderness which, in my opinion, makes the couple feel very united. It is certainly something very subjective. But I always happily remember the rainy and cold days when, after having sex, you stay indoors in the heat under the covers or on the sofa hugged each other. Even on summer Sundays, when the hot sun outside the house makes some rays leak through the half-closed shutters and reaches the bed on which we are lying. She is curled up against my body, clings to me, she feels protected. I love those moments. I can caress her, but I can also stand still with my eyes closed and feel her body in contact with mine, feel her breath, the smell of her skin. She is incredibly tiny in stature while I am tall and fairly sturdy in build. This greatly amplify all of these feelings, both for her and for me. When I enclose her in a hug, I also have the physical sensation that I really own her. It is a moment of great tenderness and intimacy. She loves these moments and our way of being together, and she calls me big boy when she clings to my body. During one of those moments of tenderness after having sex, she once told me that the two of us complete each other when we join our bodies and we make love.
My wife and I enjoy post-sex cuddling. It is the only time that we cuddle, despite the fact that when we were younger, cuddling was an important part of our daily lives. It's a shame we drifted away from it.
