Possibly one of the saddest things ive read

Wow,
I just read this message from this best friend of mine, me and her were soooo close for the longest time

and i know its short notice
but i think i may stop toking because of it.
because i know thats what it was about


""When I first met you, Kiefer was a totally and completely different person than he is today. We use to be BEST FRIENDS, but you changed and I couldn't handle that. I can't tell you exactly what changed and when, but I just no a transition happened that wasn't for the best. So, I decided to drop you, plain and simple. But then I began to despise you and everything you had become. So I fought you, every second of every day. And I screamed and yelled and threatened, but it didn't help anything. It was just my way of reacting to the change.


So we stopped talking, for a longggg time. And just recently we starting communicating again. I wouldn't call us friends, and I wouldn't call us enimies. But I just don't know enough about you anymore to tell you what i honestly think about you now, so I'll tell you what I honestly thought about you before all this.

You were such a rebel, and I loved that. You would do anything and everthing to help your friends, you weren't selfish in anyway what-so-ever. You cared more about your friend's happiness than your own. You were so passionate about your beliefs, an opinions, which completely inspired me to not be afraid of what people thought about me when i said what i truely believed. I could talk to you about anything. And most importantly,you are the reason Josh and I are dating. I wouldn't be going on a year and a month with him, if it weren't for you and you triple agent work. hahaha""

 

awe.

& much good luck on that

 

Any friend that would just "drop you" isn't good in the long haul IMO. I'm happy for you if you guys are re-kindlin' your friendship.

And if that is one of that saddest things you've ever read, consider yourself lucky or just really naive.

 

What sounds liek the persons way of telling you tehy are glad they knwo you and want to be better friends...
I think.

Either way be your self, and do what makes you happy.

 

Stella speaks the truth. A best friend who will just put you out like that is a real asshole. Trust me, I fell for that shit like half a year ago and they're just not good people.

 

That honestly sounds like my old friend and my girl. He use to call us both constantly on 3 way and call our phones at random times, then me and the girl fell in love, and stopped talking to him due to his immaturity. I do not miss his friend ship tho. Hes such an immature asshole. We stopped talking to him because he started telling my girls personal life to random people.

 

i hope you guys can start rekindling your friendship!

it's good your friend wants you back, because if she dropped you for good she's no friend, like stella said