I have never met a married couple like us who have been into a FFM poly triad for even close to the 30 years we have been. My wife was a virgin when we met and had very limited sexual experience, not even oral. Yet she was an eager learner and we had a great first few years of sex. As expected, my wife got curious about what sex would be like with another man. The opportunity arose when our best friends asked us if we would like to wife swap. I left it up to my wife and she said yes. I really was not into my friend's wife since she was on her third marriage, had 3 kids and looked like she had been through a wringer. I was used to my young and very tight petite wife who did not have to wear a bra until her late 30's. I quickly gave my friend's wife an oral orgasm and just could not reach an orgasm with her. Booze, cocaine and weed does that to me. Plus she wanted me to hurt her more than I was comfortable with doing to someone I never dominated before. Therefore I got to watch my wife have sex with my friend. My wife was just being pounded into the living room couch. No kissing or fondling, just raw sex to a passive woman. Afterwards on the drive home my wife said that I was enough man for her and she never wanted to have sex with other men again. I knew what the problem was. Her only sexual experiences have been our passionate love making and raw sex with someone she did not love was not enjoyable to her. My wife usually reaches an orgasm with me in under 3 minutes and has multiple ones, as many as 17 over a three hour period once. She did not have an orgasm but my friend finally did after 20 or more minutes. I was not counting. I was neither jealous or aroused. Just interesting to see my wife have sex from a distance. Although my wife did not like sex with my friend, she liked watching me with the wife. That started a spate of threesomes with her girlfriends. One night her best friend since childhood was drinking and smoking with us. She had just gotten divorced, sold the house to split the profits and was living with us until she could find a place of her own near her job. I knew my wife's friend very well because she is the sister of an old friend and we had crushes on each other. She was a good girl and I was a bad boy so we never hooked up. The gf was complaining that it had been 8 months since she had sex and out of the blue my wife volunteered me. I never once mentioned a threesome but my wife knew that her girlfriend had a crush on me as her other friends did. I have some qualities that women seem to like. She took my wife up on the offer and when she and I were done, I invited my wife to join us in a threesome. That lead to the gf moving in with us and living with us for 7 years. We were all lovers and had sex with each other. Our gf got married to a guy she found online who was into cuckolding just so she could continue to maintain her relationship with us. In total we were a poly triad for about 30 years and only moved away from our gf 6 years ago. I am married over 44 years. Our gf was supposed to follow with her cuck but he lost all of their retirement money in a Ponzi scheme. He had a gambling problem which costs him his first marriage so he was happy to let his new wife do whatever she wanted to. Our plan was always to retire and live out final years together but it was not to be so. We had poly friends but they never shared a boyfriend or girlfriend. They each dated others and that always ended up destroying their marriage. Try to find married couples into poly for as long as us and you probably cannot, at least in real life. We have found none. We went to clubs, restaurants, casinos and vacations together. Sometimes the husband would tag along and then disappear once we got to our destination. He actually handed his wife over to us until it was time to go home. I never asked why because I did not want to ruin a good thing. Funny thing is that since our Triad lasted for most of our marriage, it was just our normal. We did not discuss it or analyze it. Our girlfriend knew that my marriage was the primary relationship as hers was and we never even had an argument in all that time. We were a perfect combination of people who never got jealous or sought more attention than we were given. The only time I thought about our different marriage was when the guys would either talk about wanting a threesome before they die or bragging about the one they had. I have had a few thousand threesomes since it was our normal sex and I had to bite my tongue and say nothing. To me and my wife, threesomes were no big deal but we all agree that they are much better than twosomes. We have been monogamous for the last 6 years since it suits our old age status and medical issues. Plus too many wrinkles in bed is not a pretty sight. Anyone else have a poly story to share? We lived a good part of our life prior to the internet and cable TV. We had no idea of what our relationship was called or what others were doing. Even when the internet came around, we never felt a need or desire to post about our sex life. Only last year at the age of 64, did I even reflect on how different it was. As silly as this sounds, I did not even realize that the only 4 girls I ever loved since the age of 13, are all bisexual but did not know that until well into the relationships. Never figured out why bi girls were drawn to me or me to them. Since going online I have found lots of people into poly but their version is nothing like mine. What they call poly we used to call non exclusive relationships back in the late sixties. Wife sharing and all the other stuff I read about existed probably since early man spotted another female. All that has changed it giving it new names and posting about it. Share your story and feelings on poly relationships. For us it worked out perfectly but not so much for the poly couples we knew.
