Poll

What do you guys think:

I'm a girl who is trying to figure out if I should have sex with a guy who has a girlfriend. I have nothing against his girlfriend, I just like (for several years) him. My question then, is this: Is it my responsibility to remind him that he's in a relationship and say no, or should I let him be a big boy and decide for himself what he wants to do?

Any advice would be great.

 

I was actually in the exact same situation once.

Don't do it. Honestly, just take my word for it. Don't. (I didn't do it)

 

save that kind of stuff for someone who cares about you.....cause i doubt if you get pregnant hes isnt gonna try to make you abort it......

unless your like 30.....how old r u

 

definetly don't do it!

 

I was wondering the same thing too.. about her age...

pregnancy aside, the regret/guilt you'll feel.. i dunno..

 

Would you be happy if some ho slept with a boyfriend of yours? My guess is no.

 

hell no

 

ha I'm not exactly a chik but if I put myself in that situation as him I wuldnt wanna cheat on her in the first place. And also if it was a girl in a realtionship that wanted to fuck me I dont think I could do it either knowin how shitty I'd feel if I was the other guy........

 

nah, that's not very sweet man. i mean, if they want to be in a relationship, you should probably respect that, and let him decide what he wants to do for himself.

 

It's not worth it.

 

nope! Even if it's fun for you, it's gonna tear her apart (unless they have an open relationship)

 

Whenever I face tough descions like these, I flip coins.

 

What does your god say?

if you dont have one, then you shouldnt have a guilty conscience either.

if i were in that position i wouldnt do it though. but im not you

 

be smart. dont be this guys piece of ass on the side

 

unless she wants nothing more than that

 

Everyone has an opinion about this kind of thing and you probably should make up your mind for yourself.

Unless Lincoln's telling you. Flip it!!!!!

 

im sure she could get that from someone who isnt in a relationship. if this guys feelings for his girlfriend have changed, he should breakup with her. to know that you have or are being cheated on is one of the most awful feelings in the world

good luck with the decision making

 

i too am a believer of the "love the one youre with" thing...

but, i dont know. theres also the mighty felicity shagwell saying, "if you dont love the one youre with, shag the one you want." both seem to be pretty reasonable

 

ahahaha i like that one better

 

well the great mike myers possibly wrote that one so naturally..