Plymouth/Cape Cod Area Married Bisexual Bottom Seeks "Relationship" With Bi/Gay TOP

Hey guys, I'm a 38 year old married bisexual bottom in the Plymouth/Cape Cod, Ma area seeking a "Relationship" of sorts with either another married Bisexual TOP, or a single gay TOP man. I'm NOT interested in "straight" guys who are just looking for "a thrill". Before anyone asks, yes, my wife knows and approves of me persuing a relationship with another guy, as long as I'm not just sleeping around with anyone and everyone. She understands that as a bisexual man, I have specific needs and desires that a woman isn't capable of meeting.

I am 5'10", with short brown hair (usually keep my head shaved), blue eyes, weigh 185, have 7"c, and have an average build. Though I'm masculine in appearance and general attitude, I'm much more on the submissive side with men behind closed doors, so a "somewhat aggressive" and take charge kind of guy would be much preferred. Someone who's easy going in public, yet naturally dominant (especially behind closed doors, and when it comes to sex) is the kind of guy I'm looking for.

Another married man might be ideal, as there will be times I'll need to be discrete (not around my wife), because I'm not "out" to anyone else around me. I'm not seeking a 3some type arrangement either (though I wouldn't totally rule it out occasionally with the right bisexual guy), though I'm not against the idea of a gay TOP guy either, as long as he's cool with my wife being in the picture as well, as I keep NO secrets from her.

I do have a strong preference for guys that are a bit older than myself (45-60) and have no interest in anyone younger than me. Also, a man who's bigger than me (in ALL aspects, but not too overweight) is what I'm generally attracted to

Unlike most bisexual guys, I'm actually into the intimate/romantic side of things too, such as kissing, making out, cuddling, and showering with another man, though I'm not really big on PDA's (public display of affection), so another man who truly enjoys being intimate/romantic with men, yet also takes pleasure and enjoyment in asserting his dominant ways (especially when it comes to sex) is what I'm really trying to find... As there's also times I thoroughly enjoy being "used" for another man's "selfish" sexual enjoyment.

Outside the bedroom I'm just a typical guy enjoying things like; cars (anything with wheels really), watching sports (especially football and baseball), BBQing, having a few beers, hanging out with friends, watching action movies, going for walks, taking drives to nowhere in particular, animals (especially dogs), people watching, shooting pool (billiards).

The man I seek should be open-minded, nonjudgemental (because I do have a wife), easy going in public (we can figure out just how far you take your dominance over me behind closed doors), and be interested in forming a special "friendship" with the goal being to take it to the "next level". Initially, I'm not seeking a boyfriend per say, though the intimate/romantic/sexual side of things is what I'm looking for as well, so something along the lines of an "exclusive" FWB (friends with benefits). You should also live in the Immediate Plymouth/Cape Cod area too, so meeting up won't be an issue.

Looking forward to hearing back from someone who's seeking something similar to what I'm seeking.

 

Interesting

 

What's interesting ? Seems like you're just trolling

 

That your GF would be so liberal of your wants

 

She's my WIFE... And she's bisexual too, understands the needs/desires

 

Not trolling, Just an interesting post

 

My wife would never agree to that.

 

Some women are ok with it/into it, and others are TOTALLY against the idea of her man being with another guy

 

That would be my wife.

 

And yet it's a proven fact that most women who watch porn actually prefer gay and lesbian porn