I met this guy out of no where in a bar, we moved on from friends zone really quickly. This was actually all behind my bf's back by the way. Well not suppose to happen this way, we moved a little closer then friends now. It has been like this since Valentine's day, I lose attraction towards my bf from time to time, i guess he is a good guy and everything, but sometimes he made me to do all these weird stuff with the sex toy before we have sex. I kinda hate it for some strange reason. Well or is just an excuse for me to like this other guy. What should i do ? but for this other guy, he seems to be hot and cold at times. Sometimes he is treating me really nice but sometimes treating it as a normal friend. I am so confused should i just tell him straight up ?
continue being used by bf for weird sex and continue fucking uncaring friend on the side.....add third guy into mix....one with nice car maybe?
Just remember the grass is always greener. That being said, you should not stay with someone you are not that in to or in love with. If thats the case i dont see why you wouldn't just be honest with the new guy about your attraction to him and give him a shot. If its just the kinky stuff that's bothering you then you should talk to your BF about it. WIth sex, often times the problem is communication. even though its hard, you must talk about your wants and needs and fantasies. you might suggest an alteration of your routine that could really turn you both on.
is true things are always better, well i guess i will have to just isolate myself from both of them. Dam is so confusing. Have you guys experience anything similar to that?
it was great meeting you the other night at the bar, jannet. question though, why would you isolate yourself from me? i thought we were having so much fun together!! and if im so much better than your boyfriend, why dont you just drop him for me?? i mean its so stupid just to stay with someone just because you met them first isn't it?? are you a first come first serve type of girl, or do you choose your partner based on more meaningful things??? also, the reason why i'm treating you hot and cold, is because i feel you haven't fully given yourself to me, so i feel like i can't fully give myself to you. theres something holding you back, and we both know who it is, so until you resolve that issue, our relationship can't be more than what it is now. i will tell you something i can give you that your boyfriend cant: a new adventure.
Aww that is so sweet of you trying to offer yourself to me. I judge someone based on feeling and looks. Would be great if you could write me a resume we could perhaps schedule for an interview in the future. Cuz i remember you were still looking for a job last time when u were still trying to buy me a drink. You are the guy who was wearing the dress shirt right? BUt either way haha, the setting was fake but the concept is real. Well just to tell u, i am a full time sl ut i take anything that walks in 2 legs.
