I am in a very horrible situation. There is this guy. He is just my type. I don’t know anything about him. I usually see him at certain place, like twice a week. He is just studying in a bench. Every time, he looks up at me for 2 seconds and then back to his studying. Such nice eyes and calm face kill me!!! I see him around sometimes. I am so attracted to his charm and calmness. He is really my type. The 1st problem is I don’t know if he is ready to be approached. I was once not ready; I liked someone but didn’t dare to show it. It was really awkward for anyone trying to approach me. I am afraid he is in such stage. The 2nd problem is I don’t have time for fooling around. I ‘ve been not sending back any signals to anyone who is interested in me. I don’t have time. I am in my final year of university. My schedule is extremely tight. If I fool around, I won’t be able to graduate with my set goal. If I tried approaching him, it would take a lot of time and I am not even sure about the outcome of doing that. The 3rd problem is I can’t make up my mind to forget this guy. I’ve never liked anyone like this. I liked him at the 1st time I saw him. I just saw him an hour ago. I walked pass him and didn’t look back. I now feel really really bad because I should have turned to him to start a conversation or something like that… I would really appreciate any advice from you guys.
Ok...you need to make time if you have a real interest in someone....how can you even get a friendship started without putting some time into it....start off with a quick hi...ask him what hes reading....some small talk....a few minutes a day over a period of time will get something going at least as far as talking. But, you will have to invest some time !!!
Hmm...school is important but could you live with yourself if you passed this guy up? I mean wouldn't you always look back and think "What could have happened" Be risky, I know it's your final year at the university but just make friends with him first, if you two hit it off and decide to go further I'm sure he'll be supportive of you and help you through a tough time. Maybe instead of facing your final year alone do it with someone. Just a thought, but I'd say go for it...have no regrets in life.
