Please give advice on situation with my fiancee

I posted this in the "Introduce Yourself" forum also but thought I may get more opinions this wsy.


Hello! My name is Fred. I am not a naturist but I could really use some advice on this topic. Recently my best friend told me that he and his wife have gotten into nude hiking. I told him that was cool but didn't think too much of it until something else happened the other day. I am getting married in two months and my fiancee Allie was hanging out one day with my friend and his wife (their names are Ben and Lacey). I had to work so I wasn't with them. My friends decided to go nude hiking and Allie became intrigued by the idea and decided to go nude and join them in their hike and had a really great time. She has been stressed out about the preparations for our upcoming wedding and she said that this really helped her to relax and unwind and she had the time of her life. I was a little uneasy about my best friend seeing her naked and her not asking my opinion first. She didn't understand why I was upset and told me it was just friends having fun and that it's not like she got naked with strangers..she did it with trusted friends. She said she would love to do it again with them. Am I making too big of a deal about this? Am I overreacting? I am happy for her that she had fun and was able to de stress. Any opinions or advice would be appreciated. Thank you!

 

Yes you are making a big deal out of this. Next time go with them!

 

Hi there! This is Allie..Fred's fiancee! I am reposting what I wrote in the other forum where this question was posted so you can see my response

Hi! My name is Allie. I am Fred's fiancee. He told me about posting here to get people's opinions. I just wanted to thank everyone who responded! It really helped with the situation. Fred is much more open minded now and he is totally cool with everything. It wasn't like we had a huge fight...but I did feel bad that he was a little uneasy about me going nude hiking with his friends. I had such a great time doing that! Fred's friends Ben and Lacey are such sweet people. I had so much fun being naked with them and feeling free and getting to know them better. We had some deep conversations and also just had fun laughing with each other and being goofy! Ben is Fred's best friend and also the best man at our uocoming wedding. His wife Lacey will be a bridesmaid at our wedding. It was so great to get to know them both so much better and share such an awesome experience...planning for the wedding has been stressful and this helped so much. Thanks to your responses Fred was so receptive when I told him how much I wanted to hike naked with Ben and Lacey again. I called up Ben and said " I had such a great time hiking naked with you guys and I would really love to do it again!" We made plans to go later today. Fred is a bit shy but he does want to try it too when he is ready. Im the meantime I will be enjoying bonding with my new friends and enjoying being free! I never thought I would be into something like this but life is full of surprises! Thank you again everyone! You rock!

 

Look on the bright side. None of you will have problems deciding what to wear at your wedding reception.

 

This should have been one time when you two should have TALKED before doing. It would have been okay if you two had talked and agreed to it. I would suggest that you do so before the wedding because this is important to your relationship. There are topics that can be let go and others that should have a conversation for no other reason than to get an understanding of each other's thinking. That would be my suggestion to you both.

 

Fiancée or wife, she doesn't need a permission slip from you.