I don't ask if I can cum in a girl's mouth (or a guy's, for that matter). If they're suckin it I'm going to cum in their mouth. Never had any complaints.
I only had one girl say she didn't want me to cum in her mouth. The rest all wanted me to. Years ago a neighbor girl 2 years younger than me (she was 18) told me as she was sucking me "I want your cum." Her saying that melted me and I really went off for her. She swallowed every drop, and then said to me, "I wanted to do that for so long." How cool was that?
Never understood why a woman would give a guy a blow job and then spit it out. So degrading for the man and for the woman she is missing the best part of the experience swallow and tasting the guys cum.
I fully agree...refusal to swallow his load (at least once-first impressions are everything) is disrespectful.
When my now-wife and I first started dating, she said that on a number of occasions. Not so often these days.
Ex Girl friend was sucking me for a long time, I always finished in her mouth and she swallowed. This time for some reason I was having a hard time cumming. I guess she was getting tired she took my dick out of her mouth and looked at it and said "oh cum on" then put it back and sucked and pumped with her hand ... she got her wish I shot off and she swallowed it all down
This whole thread is making me hard as a rock too! I need a bad girl who knows what she wants and takes it !
I agree with Altman - it's a mental thing. It's the mental boost to a guy when she says, "I want your cum. Please cum in my mouth!" It makes any guy feel like he's REALLY special to that loving lady. A S-L-O-W, deepthroat blowjob and lots of swirling tongue, combined with suction is about as great a feeling as I've ever had. Then to have her say, "I want you to cum in my mouth!" and resume her deepthroat teasing, is cause for a GIANT explosion! Then possibly fainting from the rush. I've had girls/women swallow - and also let it dribble out as they keep sucking until my pulsing is done. That's pretty hot too. It looks like I overflowed them, but they keep sucking wanting more! I love it when my wife squirts on my face as I'm tongue-bathing her. To hear her moaning and shaking as she explodes is just magic! What's not to love?