TLDR: Choose a wife/spouse that is into the things that you are. I travel for work and I just got back from Las Vegas. Anyone that has been to Vegas knows that there are women on the street in "Showgirl" costumes that will let you take a picture with them for a few bucks. Honestly, they aren't all that attractive, but, they show a lot of skin. On two different trips, I've seen older couples getting pictures with these women. Usually the wife is encouraging the husband to get the picture. This has included wearing fake handcuffs or getting spanked. Both the husband and the wife get a big kick out of it. As I watch them, I think that my wife would NEVER do that. She is extremely insecure and would hate if I wanted a picture with "showgirls" (or any girl). Those men definitely have found the right life partner. I envy them.
My wife and I went to Vegas a few years ago, and yeah we saw the show girls on the street and yes she did encourage me to get a picture with one, lol then she would in a jokingly way tease me about it