pickin' 'em at random

Has anyone else ever just picked a random person at a place say like Tea Time (a tea house in the woods) to find the father of a baby? That's kinda what happened to me. It was difinately NOT planned, if it were up to me I could have waited but hey things happen and I'm keeping in, actually I'm looking forward to haveing it.

 

nope. im not that irresponsible.

 

You mean that you have no idea who the father of your unborn child is and are trying to figure out who it is? I'm not sure I understand. Or are you saying that you just picked someone out of the Tea House, not knowing who they were, slept with them and now you're carrying their baby?

 

good idea *cough cough*

 

I thought sperm banks were for people who liked picking random guys to be a father to kids.

 

Haha squawkers.

 

Gee Squakers that's coming from someone who doesn't even get to see her children because she can't take care of them, I know who the father of my child is, I live with him, I'm saying it was a total accident how it happened, never use durex condoms, they slip off way too easily. As for responsibility, I'm resposibile enough to take of myself have a house, Ruski, you fuckin' bitch you don't even know who I am you dumb ****!

 

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her profile says its always tea time.
sounds cool to me! except i dont like me girls preggers that why i use the durex.

 

wow, 9 posts and you're already flaming. what fun.


I like birth control pills and condoms, yay for not being pregnant. I'm so not ready for kids right now

 

not sure who that was directed to...but I live with 6 of my children, 3 grandkids and an ex-husband who happens to be the father & grandfather of the kids.
yes I know condoms, birth control pills & an IUD don't always work...I got preggo with all 3 methods.

 

lol holy shit that made me laugh.

eh i could take the bait and flame your stupid ass like i usually would but i cant be bothered wasting my time on dumb bitches like yourself. i dont need/want to know you, i just feel sorry for your kid

 

Wow...Number one, stop flaming...It's not nice, especially from an expectant momma.

Number two, I realise you're living with the guy that knocked you up, but if the relationship has such rocky weird beginnings, do you actually anticipate this lasting? at all?

Number Three, the way you stated your first post really invited lots of flame. It seemed (and kinda still does) that you went somewhere, picked up a guy that you thought looked good, and then proceeded to fuck him so you could get knocked up. Not very responsible.

I mean, yes, I'm pregnant too. And at my age, people might not think it's a very responsible decision, but at least I am in a stable relationship with a man I very dearly love. I have no questions at all about what kind of father he will be or if he will stick around. If the first time you saw your man was right before he got you knocked up, you don't have very long with him to judge whether or not he's a good man.

 

huh, i dunno about that - i didn't get immediately knocked up by my present hubby, but we were doin the freaky within i'd say about.... 20 minutes? of our first chance to be alone. now we're married 2 1/2 years, got a baby, and i KNOW he worships me - he vowed on our wedding day to kiss my ass every day, and he does, regularly, in private and in public. i've always loved him, since the day i met him... IN A BAR, no less... lol!!! i love saying that to people when they ask how we met - i always tell em 'the old fashioned way, at the bar!' so sometimes those random things turn out very good - fate, karma, plain ol animal attraction, whatever ya want to call it.

my good friend peaches once told me, sometimes you gotta go out on a limb, cuz that's where the fruit is.