Physical date with a guy who is "too popular"

Hi, there is one guy at my college who is this big muscular super-hot boy, and a lot of girls want to have intimate times with him, including me.
However, I would like to have a one-on-one meeting with him, and the problem is that he is quite known for having sex with several girls at once, typically during the weekends, and this is apparently the normal thing for him, so I am not sure how to talk to him about a one-on-one date.
Do I have a chance there, or how do guys like him typically work?

I know that I am considered hot and attractive and all that by a lot of guys, but I am still a bit unsure where to start with this guy.

 

Just chat to him casually, guys like him often get attention for the wrong reasons and find it hard to find sincere friends.
But you need to ask yourself the same questions.

 

I’m with “wilsjane”. Be careful!

 

Thank you for sharing and welcome to HF!;-)

 

Yeah, I mean the girls who hit on him in school typically try to make physical contact with him whenever they get the chance, call him "hot" straight out, and those kinds of things.
I have also seen some girls be alone with him one-on-one a couple times in school, and they will sit as close to each other as possible in a corner a bit out of the way.

To put it simply, a lot of girls are are making an effort to have sex with him, so I guess maybe he has settled for group meetings with them for that reason?
I guess he might not be the one-on-one type that much, then.

 

How do you know that. He may be looking for a girl who prefers his personality to his body, and would enjoy finding a sincere friend.
At the same time, you need to ask yourself, whether that is what you are looking for, rather than a notch on your bedpost.
Do you share an interest in his academic subjects along with his tastes in art, music and food.?

 

I pity the woman who ends up with this guy. If you just want sex with him---just tell him.

 

Back in my younger days, I worked with a guy like him and he found the insincere physical attraction a nightmare. He even resorted to starting a rumour that he was gay. It was so funny at the time.
He finally found a girl who was more interested in him as a person and the last I heard he was happily married and starting a family. Unfortunately we never kept in touch, so I am wondering about how everything turned out as I am typing.

 

You just have to ask him and see what he says. If he says anything other then for sure let’s do the one on one thing. I wouldn’t waste your time any longer than you have.

 

You should go for it, if for nothing else just to see for yourself if he's as good as others think .
Just be sure to let us know how it goes.