Photo Shoot With Bfs Friend

So, my BF is a photographer, and he was talking about doing a photo shoot of a sexual nature with his friend and a girl. I kind of gave him a hard time about it, photographing a naked woman and all. Then he retorted "well if you're so worried about it, why don't you do it then?" Does this sound like he's into sharing or whatever it's called?

 

It definitely sounds like he would be OK with it. Most likely though he probably just assumes you wouldn't do it so he was saying it to shut you up. It sounds like fun though. Tell him you'll do it and see what he says

 

If you're not comfortable with this situation perhaps the way around it is to insist you accompany him on the shoot so you can keep an eye on things.

 

I told him I would and he seems to be waaaaay more than fine with it.

 

Hmm are you asking if he's into "three-somes" or "polygny" ? .. Nah i don't think it's that serious he's probably saying you should do it instead to kind of like prove a point. Like "if your not going to do it then you should not have a problem with me doing it" type thing. But you should definitely try it, only if you feel comfortable with it...show him who's boss

 

Yeah, that's kind of my plan. Definitely show him who's boss lol

 

You should only get involved if your comfortable with and not feel pressurised into doing something you don't want to.

Relationships are all about trust and you must remember if you go through with this photo shoot and whatever else may be involved then the photos are a permanent record and you need to make sure they stay permanent. In other words you have to live with the consequences of your actions.

 

Yeah, that is very true. Right now I'm planning on doing it, but I am definitely thinking about it.

 

Its the perfect opportunity to see if your bf is someone you can trust imo. Guys look at other girls, its natural, we look at other guys too but if we love our partners then it shouldn't be a problem.

 

He may be into watching others have sex and/or being watched rather than sharing or n-somes.

If the four of you are going to be doing something sexual (and your bf photographing them while you chaperone counts as sexual) then the four of you need to agree, beforehand, what the plans and the boundaries are.

As far as you've told us, this other couple plans on being photographed during sex. And that's it.

If you and your bf are open other activities, you need to talk with this other couple beforehand. (Heck, he needs to get approval for your presence in the room from this other couple.)

BTW, do you and your BF watch porn together?

 

We know them very well and have talked to them about it.

 

i think it sounds completely awesome. I say there is nothing to worry about - just go have some fun at the shoot.

 

Agreed Wheattie; I think it sounds totally amazing. Go for it both of you!

 

Sounds like one of the dumbest things you could say to somebody tbh. If you're worried about, you aren't going to want to do it. This photographer sounds like he ain't got too much between the ears.

 

In that case, just remember that you will regret things you didn't do longer than you will regret things you do.

 

Seriously? This just happened to me, almost word for word. Except replace BF with husband. That's crazy.

 

Pics or it never happened....

 

Lol

 

Well, if I had a girlfriend as beautiful and seductively gorgeous as you are, I wouldn't want to share her with anyone. I'd want her all to myself, lol.

 

Really? I guess it was your husband's idea then? How did you feel after it was over?