Pets in the middle of your relationship?

Hi all,

I have a great relationship with my person but there are some things that worry me. We are very different in the type of bed we life and the way the room is co figured. That's been a tiny issue even though we live apart. Not sure how that will play out.

The bigger issue is her dogs. I have never been a good sleeper with dogs or cats in the bed. Sometimes if they don't move much or are quiet, I am OK. I have a pug that is with me sometimes and often I need her to sleep in her own dog bed or in a little nest on the other corner of thr bed.

Her one dog is nuts. Always getting between us during sex, attacking me or us during intimate sessions, licking my face during sex and the dog even gets upset if I kiss my partner who is the dog's owner.

She is very noisy on the bed when we try to sleep, smells terribly and is always touching me thru the night. End result is I get no sleep.

I am worried the relationship will not survive due to the dogs and differences in how we have our bedrooms.

Curious your thoughts and experiences.

Thanks.

 

We always have had pets, primarily dogs in our house. We love them for their companionship and nurturing. Dogs are social animals needing either people or other dogs around them for comfort. But they are very easy to train and understand their place in the relationship. People are much harder to train as evidenced by your mate. She needs to know, one, the pet has to be clean and groomed if allowed indoors much less sleeping on the bed. Two, she has to know the pet has a place in her life and it is not during love making. Watch the movie Bolero starring Bo Derek together. At the time her character is about to lose her virginity her man sends his pet out of the bedroom so full concentration can be had on the sex. There are other interactions with the puppy that are played well as the sex scenes begin that show pets, unless you are into bestiality, do not need to participate. Your girls dog is being instinctive in regards to her well being but can be trained that when in the throes of passion you are not a threat or menace. The movie might set an example and give your girl a hint. At least it can be used as a launch for discussion with your concern. Besides watching a young, nude, Bo Derek fucking on screen with her fantastic body might ....... well hopefully this might help.

 

I spoil all of my furry family members, but there are limits. It sounds like your gf's dog needs a bath, and a time-out when you're being intimate with your gf. Why does your she allow her dog to behave in such a way? It sounds like a good bath, and some basic training are in order. If your gf isn't willing to kick fluffy off of the bed during sex, or expects you to sleep with a stinky dog, you might be rethinking your love life before too much longer. It wont hurt the dog to be cleaner, and have a crate, or bed of its own. You're likely to enjoy its company when it isn't being so intrusive, at less that ideal times.