People that can't not be in a relationship

This will pass. However, it will take time and you are going to hurt for awhile. Surround yourself with family and friends. That's what they're there for.

 

The thing is you can make it. I don't have a soulmate but I do know what it is like to lose someone close to you. You can make it and you will make it, Somethings just take time before it gets easier. It never will be easy but in time it will get easier.

 

i believe everyone has a soulmate......i kissed him and i couldnt believe how cold he was and then i lost it .....im talking hysterics

 

Some do but not all, in my opinion. And I understand why you lost it.

 

It only appears like there is no light at the end of the tunnel. You are going to have to grieve. Only time and support from love ones will see you thru this.

 

i have no family. only one friend and his family blames me like i stuck the fucking shit in his arm.i have noone

 

Then find a support group. Hell, I'll be your family.

 

do u have aim? im desperately needing somone to talk me out of eating a bottle of 90 xanax

 

You are NOT going to take any pills.

 

nevermind im sorry for saying that

 

Just make sure you don't. You are going to have to deal with the pain. It does get better. It just doesn't seem like it right now.

 

i just want the pain to stop

 

It will. But I won't lie it's going to be awhile.

 

You're a real swell guy, oldhippie.

 

Aaaaahhhh serial monogamists.

I've been pretty much single all my life too, I gave up on the whole dating thing years ago. It's just not for me.

 

More girls than guys seem to *have to* be in a relat.

Sex , dating , seeing people - yeah I need those things.
But in recent times I havent had the overwhelming need for a full on "deep relat."

However some people are obsessed by it .All this "let me introduce you to ..."
And I'm "oh for fucks sake , I dont want a full on relat at this moment ,thankyou v much"

 

My sister is this way, and she drags her kids along for the ride. She will be in a relationship with somebody that not only she has nothing in common with but with people she doesn't even like. She HAS to be someone. She wont even completely end a relationship until she has another going. She always moves her and her kids in with these guys within 2 months, always. Of course, she'll buy them shit or pay for their shit, and never ask for anything back, despite having nothing. She cries to me almost every day, and I mean really cries, about how unhappy she is with her life, that she wishes she was dead. Of course, she wont do anything to change her life. Right now she's with a nice guy, but obviously there isn't a spark between them...just two lonely people trying not to be lonely. It's sickening to watch.

 

i hate relationships , they are the end of all freedom! i hate too much commitment in that lovers way. i prefer to have a fuck buddy for life than to be in a deep emotional relationship

 

Really though, you don't think you would have deeply rooted emotions for a lifelong fuck buddy?

 

its gonna be a friendship bond and i have a lot of them already. but in my opinion there is a big difference in friend bond for life and lovers bond for life. the second one demands more...a lot more and i don`t want to give more