people piss me off

why does nobody care about anything besides themselves? I sent my friend an IM telling her i was having trouble deciding whether or not to cut my hair, it's really bugging me, and I know this isn't a "big" situation, but the fact that they don't give a shit about whatever problems I have and go to them with really bothers me. She says "what? oic" I really hate it when they say that, that's all they ever say "oic" I don't want to sound selfish by saying "my problems" but I'm always helping people with their issues, all I ever talk to them about is how much they hate each other and how they caught their fourteenth boyfriend this week making out with the girl from the mall. it's also the fact that they're so concerned with their problems of going to the movies and getting grounded for being online late, and they don't realize that there are people with bigger issues of having no food and nowhere to live, and people living in houses hearing things smash and doors slam in the morning and listening to their brother get kicked out cause he wouldn't go to rehab. I know i need to realize that these are their problems and that they're important to them, I just wish they'd pay a little more attention to the people around them.

 

Don't cut your hair! Nooooooooooo!!!


Fuck the people...if they piss you off, block em

 

i want to cut my hair, they can make a wig out of it and give it to somebody with cancer, and that'd make me happy if i could help them

 

^^Yeah, I wanted to do that when I cut my hair, but when I got there, they completely rejected me. "It's not long enough!" in this horrible condescending voice. ugh

 

Oh hey, thats awesome! Knock yourself out then not literally of course.

 

my mom measured mine with a ruler and ten inches (that's what i think you need) from the bottom up ended at my shoulder

 

yeah, thats about where mine was, a bit past my shoulders. I think the problem was that it was'nt that length all over. It just kinda grew all about from the last haircut I had.

 

You're so lucky....my hair is just now reaching my shoulders. I can fit an inch of my bangs into my nostrils

 

I agree people have their heads so far up their own arses these days... this place is my sanctuary.

 

This place is my home....I share a closet with George.

 

Umm.. chuck, that... was that some sort of intended pun?

 

Dude, did you ever stop to think maybe your friend is dealing with a bigger problem then you cutting your hair?

Sounds like you help them and expect that returned. Some people just don't care. It's the way of the world. Get used to it. People are going to do that to you for the rest of your life, don't let it get to you.

You just said whether or not getting a haircut was your problem, and you're pissed that they think going to the movies is a big deal? Do you realize what you just did?

It's a HAIRCUT.

 

It's also more than meets the eye. Sometimes people just don't give a shit. - Something I've had the just take in and deal with time and time again, I know how it feels like that. Not exactly, but I've been there. Locks of love is a worthy charity... I know many people that do it.

 

My thoughts exactly.

 

My problems weren't a haircut. If you read the rest of the post, I said any problems I go to them with and want their support with. It's a lot deeper then a haircut, I specifically said I know that that's not a big problem, it was an example

 

yeah you sit through their moans and be there for them cause you're their friend and care unconditionaly even when sometimes you are thinking not this again! and then for the rare time you have something {and I think most people here are happy people who complain little and take so little} have one small but important question to you and you get looked at like you just pissed into the wind you think well fuck you man I gave you my all and you just take thats low man. I will calm down now lol it not like I have a chip on my shoulder about this kind of thing lol so loveflower I hope I understand what ya mean and if you do cut your hair to help others good on ya but for thinking about it I think you're the most selfless caring person

 

like I said, I have the same things happen a lot, don't worry about it.

 

thanks frog, I wouldn't say I'm the most selfless caring person, but I do know that I'm there for a lot of people, and it does make me happy that I can help them.. it's just sometimes I wish I had someone to help me

 

What? OIC
sorry, had to do it...

 

mmmmm...k, what was the purpose of that...lol.