Have you ever been really close to a person and them just fucking vanish? I have had a person important in my life just be an ass and do this and give no explanation or anything. Just left. Hurts. How do you deal with this?
hurts like a bitch and you wonder..all you do is wonder when or if youll ever stop thinking of them and then theres the self questioning..did i do something? what could it have been?? you get so stuck in your head... but you gotta move on, they arent the person you thought they were...there is more to come along your path and if you dont think so, then youll miss whats right infront of you
I play both sides of this. I have had people totally disappear on me, but I have also totally disappeared from other people's lives.
I hate when people don't have the guts to say goodbye! It makes you feel like shit and you are left feeling abandoned. The thing to do is forgewt them. They don't care enough about themselves to even give you anything to let go of. Just be free live your life and say to those losers who can't say goodbye"Kiss off" I don't need ya! In the end you are better off finding real friends.not posers!
there is someone i care about and was getting rather close to, who was usually in the habit of pushing people away, keeping himself so busy he couldn't get close to anyone. i guess he had a hard time dealing with things, because recently all of a sudden i get an email from him, sent to our entire circle of friends, telling us all that he's picking up & moving out of state at the end of the summer. all the arrangements have been made & the plane ticket purchased. no warning. everything was going beautifully, and then suddenly, he decides to leave. i totally did not see this coming. i panicked & told him how i feel, and he rejected me. i still don't know what happened. the worst part is, i can't stop him from leaving, but he's still around. it's like he's already gone, but he's still here. i have to see him again this weekend - just the 2 of us. it's going to be awkward.
