And when an unexpected one shows up, sometimes it sucks, we all like to believe others are uncomplicated, simple beings and we're the only complicated ones, and when they are complicated too, it shocks, maybe appalls, and sometimes offends us. maybe we just need to learn to expect it.
Why don't you just post what is on your mind. I learned a long time ago. Do not put any thing past any person. Including myself. Is this about a girl?
As for me, I'm always aware that people are more complex than they first appear. I essentially think of human beings (including myself) as inscrutable.