Penis size????

well, I have only had sex with 2 people... the first one's penis was on the small side. and the second one, the person who I am still with, has one that is quite a bit bigger. The problem though is that for some reason, I cant seem to feel as much with the bigger one. I mean, it hurts more yeah but as far as stimulation and pleasure goes, the smaller one was allooot better for me. I have only had one orgasm with the new guy and with the guy with the smaller penis, I had one every time, sometimes more than one. I dont understand because I thought it was supposed to be the other way around... Does anyone know y this could be? or what I could possibly do to make sex with this new guy better?

 

Probably the fact that it is hurting you, is causing you to be a lot less pleasured. He may also not know how to work it as good as the first guy.

Society makes us think bigger is better, but in reality that is totally untrue... with a few exceptions lol. When your bigger you end up stretching the girl a lot more, and that usually becomes a lot less pleasureable for her until she can get adjusted. Since im a guy, ive never felt that soreness. But i doubt its very fun the next morning.

 

also, it may be that the "shorter" guy had a bit of a curve to his penis that stimulated your gspot in a really fabulous manner, and the "longer" guy doesn't have that effect on you.

Like acropora said, big cocks are overrated for the most part. Scary, occasionally painful, and requires more lube and foreplay.

 

it depends on what you mean by big and small. such relative words...
the biggest penis i ever had.. hurt me and i couldnt get off. the smallest, well, i couldnt feel it.

my husband is about average but slanted and when he's inside of me ... wow.

 

i think my bf's penis is large, i've seen men's penis in porns and my bf doesn't fall behind in size. sex is always enjoyable as long as I am in the mood for it. when he is erect, his penis curves upwards near at or past the height of his belly button. i am thinking maybe because of this upward curve he's able to make me orgasm and it always feels good when he's inside of me.

 

my shaft is tiny, but the head is huge!

 

shit he has the same penis I do.

 

I'm fine with my size too

 

I'm not a woman, or gay, but I would imagine a bigger penis is psychologically more attracitve than a small one. But in practice it doesn't feel any better.

Psychologically, I want a woman's hole to be nice and tight. But in practice, if it was too tight it would hurt.

 

The biggest I ever seen was 10 inches...



the smallest was umm... 5 inches

 

Thata a bit smaller than me.But my penis goes STRAIGHT. If i have an erection in jeans it is a nightmare.

 

First guy probably had more skill. Certainly, if you know you don't have the size thing going for you , you would make extra sure to put the extra effort into being a good lover. Or at least I do.

 

you guys are making me horny... god...

 

LOL!!!

I know, I don't want a guy with a horse size penis and I also don't want to use a magnifying glass to locate his penis either... The biggest that I've seen was 13 inches and the smallest was 4 inches in length. I think 7 inches in lenght is better. I keep bumping into these guys who have 9 -13 inches, which is not my cup of tea.

 

When I'm soft it actually goes in about half an inch

 

yeah i'm fine with mine too. just about right in the middle of small and big i think

 

my cousin said that she had the exact same problem as me actually.
Do you think that maybe its just that I need to get used to the other one?

 

oh I didnt really mean bigger as in length that much... one was about 4 inches and the bigger one is about 6 but I meant more about the thickness...

 

HAH
So in my freshman year of university one guy in my dorm kept emphasizing that it's not size that matters but it's how you use it. He was teased for that. Now he would get the last laugh.

 

I hate penises