So I'm new here and just recently lost my virginity. Issue for me is I don't cum. In all honestly I've never came from touching my penis. I've learned to cum from anal stimulation. And honestly sex is great. Feels good, I love fucking her and eating her out. She gets off a lot so there's no worries there. I don't mind not getting off as in a sense I'm getting off mentally through pleasing her. But I wouldn't mind orgasming myself. I don't really have a desire to masturbate(anal) anymore as I'm getting my fill of sex. During sex I don't really get that close to orgasm. I've had two blowjobs before from a different girl and as I recall it felt better than sex but still I was nowhere near orgasm. Does anyone out there know of or have any idea of some cream, ointment, medication or anything that could help me cum normally?
There is this stuff called Man1Man oil. A cream that claims to increase penis sensitivity as well as moisturize. It can be found on Amazon. I'd be curious more about your masturbation habits before you had sex. You never got off with your hand or humping a mattress/pillow or vibrator, etc? Is it prostate stimulation only that gets you off or are you stroking too? It could be you've trained yourself to only get off to a certain stimulus that vaginal sex can't compensate for. Some guys masturbate using the 'grip of death' as they call it. So a vagina can't give them that tight grip they've trained their penis to react to. My 1st time getting off was when playing with a vibrator on my dick. Didn't expect the orgasm and of course loved it. So that was how I got off nightly until the vibrator broke. Then I didn't know what to do (I was like 13). Then someone explained the hand and after some unsuccessful attempts, I finally stroked myself to climax and that's my way now with myself. Probably more info than you needed, just trying to give you some context that may help. Try playing and rubbing, maybe even vibrating, your frenulum (where the underside of the head meets the shaft.) Big nerve and pleasure center. Be patient too. All good things cum to this who wait. Lol You also didn't mention if you are using condoms with her. They really can take away the sensitivity IMO. I hate them.
Okay so I learned to cum from anal at 17 after just playing around. I did it before and it always felt good but that time I guess I went too far lol. But yeah I've never came from just penis stimulation. I tried a lot. My dick swelled up a couple times and was tender. For a while I thought I was just unable to cum. I have a pocket pussy and same deal. Feels good but not even close. And I know my mind is trained to cum from anal but I've done anal like twice since february so it's not entirely my mind. And no we don't use condoms, she's allergic to them.
Just introduce anal play to sex... my bf comes from normal intercourse in 3 min but yet he always says that prostate stimulation makes it so much better: if thats what does it for you, dont miss out on it.
