I have decided I want a guy to **** me in the butt. Until now, I have just gave guys hand jobs, I now want to go further. I don't know whether it's best if I cum first, from HJ/BJ etc, or should I be ****ed first, then cum afterwards. Advise please.
You probably need to be highly aroused first, but I would hold back from cumming, just take it to the edge. My best time getting fucked was when I got hot and bothered sucking a cock(which was the only plan), then moved my ass where he could caress my checks, that took me over the top, I just had to turn around and have him fuck me, 1st guy in years to just go right in and only one to come in me, it was so wonderful
I think you’ll get more out of it if you are aroused as said above. It can be an awesome orgasm if a guys cock is bumping your prostate and edging your cock.
Getting fucked sounds hot! But you might lose some or all of your interest after you cum. On the other hand, a prostate orgasm is some sort of holy grail.
Yeah, get yourself aroused sucking his cock and balls, getting your cock and balls sucked then let him fuck you before cumming...Shooting your load while being fucked is a far better feeling. If you've got a "third" even better...I love being fucked in the ass while my wife sucks my cock.
In the beginning, I wouldn't focus on orgasm. You need to first experience the new basics: anal penetration and, hopefully, careful, measured penile thrusting. Then you can go from there and decide where and how you want orgasm to occur. Personally, when I'm masturbating, I do tend to lose interest after ejaculating; but when I'm involved with a partner, any post-orgasm drop-off is much less pronounced. And when he takes me on my back and I orgasm with my flattened, bent back, erect penis trapped underneath his lower abdomen, he can easily feel and see the spurting semen and his own growing excitement helps to support my own continuing interest. But I'm much better at exercising orgasm control when I'm on all-fours, or even standing while grasping my ankles, because my penis is much less involved.
I think I would chicken out after I blow my load. Let him Fuck you first. That's what I would hope for if I get a chance . After that sure I want to blow my load but if Fucked him or he Blew me I might shy away and lose the urge. Now if I get fucked first I might be good to keep going and try more. Fucked gently that is.
so true for me... I'm there for his pleasure, and when he is roused that makes me horny as. I spent the night with a young (31) Maori guy the other day and shit was he horny, presenting his cock (a nice big uncut one) for my mouth as a warm-up before fucking me... I'm sure he entered me more than a hundred times that night (thank god for coconut oil!) and he bred me five times before fading at 3am. Was a great night, best since a while, but not so many guys you can find like that ...and my god when your partner is that horny....that does it for me too! Simon
Five times, I could not go give times. I reckon being on the receiving end 5 times would take its toll, lol
nor could i go five times, used to make three when a bit younger, and now sometimes twice, but for me it's not necessarily the orgasm but the journey. Yeah I was a bit sore but coconut oil is magic; and while I got tired, when you see a hot partner horny with a rock hard cock wanting you......u soon lose any tiredness....hehe. Simon
I would definitely go penetration before orgasm.Get nice and horny used to love be rock hard while being fucked.Didn't take much with the right guy.Being naked giving a blowjob,having my smooth shaved ass caressed or a just a couple strokes on my cock from my partner.You’ll be begging to fucked in the ass in no time
