basically i want to try pegging but am not sure if it will be worth it. i have tried fingering my ass before and my girlfriend also fingers me and it feels good but never enough to finish, like it more just that its kinky and turns me on. i want to get fucked by her with a strap on but if its not actually going to be pleasurably im not sure i do. have i just not found the "sweet spot" so far or is there no hope
Well, getting fucked in the ass and having a prostate massage are two totally different things. For the beginner, try a prostate massage in your private time by yourself. Just a vibrator or dildo, smaller is usually better. Do a little anatomy reconnaissance and actually KNOW where your prostate is. And see if you enjoy it. Pegging is for the guy that's been playing with his prostate for a while and is ready to go to the next level and have it hammered on by a female with a harness and a dildo that's probably going to be too big. It's going to be more about humiliation and domination, and less about pleasure going on in your bum. Learn to enjoy the pleasure first, branch out from there...........
I think you will find there are other threads that have lots on information on pegging, only because they've been going on for a while. But to answer your question daveylong, my wife has pegged me on several occasions and it's a fucking fantastic feeling. Have a read of my thread on using a double ended dildo in the 'Real Kinky' section for some more thoughts of myself and others. It feels good so do it!
My wife has done both, fingered my ars and pegged me. The pegging was awesome for both of us, hell,she got off doing it to me. The prostate massage was more than awesome. She does that and it is like a non-stop org. It is amazing.
I could tell you by experience, without building up to it, it's going to be uncomfortable. haha. I jumped in with minimal preparation, but I committed because I pushed my gf at the time when she warned me. We had anal sex (her receiving) often, or she would insert a butt plug while we had sex. She would get off on it intensely. So, I started fantasizing about it often. I picked up some toys; dildos vibes, butt plug, and 3 strap all different shapes and sizes. The night we did it, she warmed me up a little with some butt plugs with nice bj. When I felt I was ready, she grabbed the smalled one I had but I told her bigger... I regretted it. haha. she went slow at first just with the tip, I felt it was all right and then she did one hard thrust and I yelped so loud. But I just powered through it.
I've always had a thing for a woman with a cock, whether it's a strapon or a shemale. I obsessed about both for a long time. I had the courage to bring it up early on when I first started dating my wife and surprisingly, she was quite receptive. I looked into getting a strapon (I tend to research and over-research) and finally picked one out. For me, it's more than just the act of getting fucked. I really wanted to suck her cock and be told that I'm a little slut and all that kind of stuff. She really got into it the first time we tried it, but as Hookdrake mentioned, it's easy to get caught up in the whole situation and end up with a cock that's too big which is what I did the first time. The cocksucking was great, but not only was the strapon too big, I really should have warmed up my ass with some finger play, then a butt plug, THEN the strapon. Instead, we just kind of lubed up, she got behind me and went for it. On one hand, it was uncomfortable, but on the other hand, I was getting fucked by my wife so that was pretty damn hot. I immediately bought another smaller cock for the harness and took a little more time getting to the fucking next time out and it was more fun. Definitely not a prostate thing though, it's more about role reversal for me. I'm currently looking for a squirting strapon that will work with a harness because I want my wife to be able to finish the act on my face.
My boyfriend really loves to be pegged.. Me, I'm not so into it. Can anyone give me advice on how to enjoy it and make him happy...
Hi Ash. As somebody who loves pegging here's a bit of advice for you. 1. Lube, lube, lube; around his arsehole and on your strap-on. 2. Slowly, slowly catchy arsey! Take it nice and slowly as you enter him. 3. Nothing too big for his first time! A little bit of pain adds to the experience but don't go for a huge strap-on in terms of thickness. Hope this helps and please let us know how it goes. They are many people on here who will be very interested, self included! XX
Hello there Running Man. I tried it out on him and he loves it. He has done it before me with another. When he told me about it and i tried it I hated it. We discussed it and found away to make it enjoyable for me. We got me a new toy that will help to pleasure myself while I have the strap-on on. I will tell you this that i am the first person to get him off by doing it the way that I did. He loves it very much and it has actually helped our relationship a lot. As for other people if your man asked you to do it there are ways that you can do to make sure its good for you as well and help you to get off.
I love anal, using butt plugs, and dildos, girlfriend has no interest in pegging, I also have a harness to hold dildo, or butt plug in me, witch she knows I do and use, just can't get her on board using strapon, on me.
i use the dildo but would love to find a pegging friend. I enjoy it. i like to watch pegging vids too...im bi and have been with men and women before but chicks with dicks excite me
i've done pegging before and it was fun giving the guy extreme pleasure. I think you should work your way there. Buy some small dildos and get yourself comfortable with anal. Then have your gf go at it. From the looks of it, it's very enjoyable
Nice one Ash.Im glad you both enjoyed it and thanks for sharing. Thats prompted me to ask Wifey for some pegging now;a new years present maybe? XX
Running Man, Yes ask her. Have her read articles about it and make her feel comfortable about doing it.
it really is worth trying to see if you like it, My wife used to always play with me so 1 day i decided to buy a strap-on and left it on the bed for when she got back from work. She worries sometimes that i just want a man but thats not the case so we always make sure we communicate with each other about any thoughts regarding sex, i am a little bi i guess as i have already told my wife i would let a man suck me off and i would also do the same but that is as far as it could go, no kissing, rubbing bodies and no anal sex, strange i know but thats me all over
My wife read a book called The Wife's Wicked Weekend last week and got so excited that she went out and bought a Strapon dildo. When she got home, she had me strip down and she pounded my ass all night. Everytime I came, she would feed it to me using a separate dildo. It was amazing.
^^Why do I get the feeling that either: A) You wrote the book and are trying to market it here. or B) Have been hired by the author to market the book here. C/S, Rev J
