Pegging is a rare occurrence in my life and tonight it's going to happen. I got a new dildo a while back called the uptown boyfriend xl its alot bigger than my other toys. I've used it on myself a few times but it's so big I can't go hard or fast but it feels incredible. So now I can't decide if I want my wife to use it on me tonight or if I want to stick with the usual one and be able to go Hard and fast. So I thought I'd make a poll about it and see what wins. So big and slow or average and fast.
Sorry I never replied. That was a long time ago and It's hard to remember if we even did anything. There's been several times where I think its going to happen but it doesn't. I will say if it did happen it was with the smaller one. My wife has seen my new one but we haven't done anything with it. And probably never will.
Never say never - - I could imagine that dinner conversation - "honey, how about pegging me with my new big dildo tonight ?".......
I was already into larger insertions before she and i met, but she wasn't comfortable with the whole idea when we first got into it. However, I just kept buying bigger toys in increments until she was comfortable with it all. Perhaps that is something that may help you as well?
She's not comfortable with any of it. She has told me she basically hates doing it and has only done it a handful of times just cause she knows I want to. But really for every 50 times I bring it up we do it maybe once. And it kinda takes some of the fun out of it because its clear she's not into it. And just trying to get it over with. Trouble is I love doing it. And it gets to the point where it's been so long it's all I can think about. Honestly wish I'd never even heard of pegging most times that way I wouldn't know what I'm missing
I started small and have recently take one 6 x 5, about the size of an average penis. It was difficult at first, but soon became very pleasurable. I'm sure that larger ones are in the future. The wife wasn't very into it at first, but has since started to enjoy it. I think it's the role-reversal part that she enjoys, and seeing me so completely drained.
When it's time for a new toy, I usually give my wife some options and she picks. The last one is 2.5 inch diameter and 10 inches long. Her "rule" is don't buy a big dildo if you don't want it. She's does not stop until it is all in (that's me, her limit toy is 7 inches long and 1.75 diameter)
