From polls & general research I have come across in the past, it seems that about 75% of people learn about masturbation from their peers & siblings, whereas the remaining 25% either learn about it by themselves accidentally, or by watching porn. However, this isn't a thread about how YOU learned, but about the view from the other side of the coin. For someone to learn about masturbation, there must also be the one that he/she has learned about it from, so this thread is asking about whether you have passed on your skills to anyone else, and what their reactions were to it, and how you felt about it. I, for instance learned about it from watching a friend at school showing off his new 'trick' in the toilets at school, and then copying what he did as soon as I got home. The very next day (seeing as I was totally exhausted & sore by the end of that first day), being a Saturday, I called for my friend, as was usual, and as we walked towards the local woods I told him about what I had seen this boy doing at school, and how I had tried it as well & how amazing it was. Once in our hiding place the woods we both dropped our pants. We were both already hard. I was the only one at the time to appreciate why these erections were beneficial, despite still being too innocent to be aware of the intended design of the penis for vaginal penetration - as yet, it was purely a new discovery of our own bodies & what we could do with them. I started by wrapping his hand around his penis & guiding it in the customary motion, which he soon caught on to, and in no time we were both masturbating together. His first ejaculation was a few seconds before mine, and with far more force than mine, but the next was about equal in force. I think we must have both have had about 7 or 8 orgasms then before we were spent, although by about 4 - 5 hours later that day, when we brought another couple of friends to join in with the new pastime, we were totally refreshed. I lose track of how many of my peers my friend & I introduced to masturbation that way, but I remember I always used to love that feeling of self satisfaction of having introduced that indescribable feeling of ecstasy to someone that would last them for the rest of their lives. There was even a time, many years later, when I had a friend who despite being in his mid - late 20s, married with a daughter had never masturbated in his life. Although he had heard about it, he had never actually tried it, not knowing quite what to do. His main problem was that he was circumcised, and he found contact by hand to be uncomfortable, so I simply gave him basic instruction in the same way as previously mentioned, then sent him off to the shower, where he could keep it moistened with soap. As I sat in the living room, the moaning sounds coming from the shower, resulting from the first time he had full control of sexual satisfaction were so arousing to me that I, too, had joined in, and as I heard his ultimate climactic groan, I think me must have our orgasms in unison. When he came out of the shower, he had a dazed expression on his face & said that when he was a kid he knew his younger brother was always playing with himself in his own room, but had always thought of him as being a sad, perverted oik, and only now was he really aware of what he had been missing out on all these years. So - have you ever passed on your skills? If so, what memories do you have?
I had a younger friend for whom I had answered some questions about sex. When he wanted to know about masturbation, I tried telling him, but he was just at the beginning of puberty and didn't quite get it. He asked me to show him. I was kind of reluctant on the one hand. On the other hand, as the author of the article stated, there is something exciting about showing someone something that will bring him so much pleasure. I declined for a while, but he was pretty persistent. The next time he slept over, I acquiesed. We were already just in underwear and t shirts, so while he sat beside me on the bed, I stripped. My penis erected right away. I think he'd seen me naked changing, but not with an erection He was amazed at the size of it (although I am average length, although of a healthy girth) and asked, 'you mean that whole thing can fit inside a girl?!' I assured him that it would, and that he, too, would grow to this size. Then he said, 'Show me what to do' so I started out just rubbing and massaging, describing what I was doing and why and how it felt I continued this through precum, showing him how to rub it around the head and frenulum. I tried to be very scholarly about it, but of course it wasn't long until I got past the point of being able to do that. I had masturbated before with friends, but this was the first time I'd had somebody just watching me without being involved themselves. It felt pretty weird, like I was some kind of zoo exhibit or science demonstration. So I was trying to keep talking about it in a detached sort of way ...until the pleasure got to be too great. He saw my thighs start tensing, then my buttocks contracting and relaxing. I tried to stay calm, but my breathing got faster and I started to sweat. I couldn't quite get away from the fact he was watching every little thing intently, and I also couldn't escape that this was feeling better and better and I wanted to orgasm, and was going to have to let myself go a little more to get past the embarrassment, and to get there. I closed my eyes and began to moan a little, and spread my legs. When, after a bit, I opened my eyes and looked, my friend wasn't laughing so I felt a little safer. I continued to stroke with ever increasing speed. Now I was gasping for breath and raising my hips toward the ceiling. Before long, I felt the pressure rising and the head of my penis expanding just before the first powerful contraction. The second one brought a spurt of semen onto my chest and then it was flowing onto my abdomen. For a few moments I'd forgotten about my audience. As my orgasm began to subside, I was suddenly overtaken by embarrassment at having had someone see me like that. But he was cool about it, and took his clothes off and began trying himself. Even though he wasn't successful, at least I didn't feel as self conscious then. Later, I had to give him a helping hand, and we masturbated together many times after he got a little further along in puberty.
Being a nudist and sex therapist,i had friends that were brothers,who often came over to visit,and i did'nt ever bother getting dressed.This one night,they came over for a sleep over,and began asking me out about some techniques,and asked if i would show them as well. I told them that i would tell and show,provided they got naked themselves.Innitially they hesitated,but soon got naked. I began showing them,and demonstrating on myself,and on them,and letting them feel the effects,and when they tried they had to test run on me,and i would guide them in their grasps and rhytms,then they had to masturbate full on upon themselves.In demonstrating on myself,i cummed a few times,but very restrained,much to their amasements. No matter how often they cumed,they had to perservere! The next morning,their dicks were a deep red and swolen,and dry.I found their somewhat ' traumatised and bruised ' penisses rather ammusing.Since then,they visited even more,and stripped naked each time.My son later also asked me when he caught me redhanded,and i gave him the theory,but the practical aspect i never did with him,nor he with me,but being nudists,he would occasionaly ask my opinion and asked me if he did it right,and show me,and i would explain again,and then re-direct his thoughts to something else,e.g.the cat wanting milk.He had no hang ups about erections and masturbating.
A cousin taught me how to masturbate when I was 12 years old. After few months I was visiting my grand mother in the village with two other cousins around the same age. The very first night I told them about what I have been taught about. The first one had already started masturbating but the second one had no idea. So it was our turn to taught him how to jerk off. He was so excited and we were so turned on that we...didn't sleep a lot that night.
