So recently I attempted to come out slowly to my mother, whom I have already known to be gay-friendly, as bisexual (or pansexual, or whatever). Only to find out that she is one of the people who believe you can only like one gender. Gay or straight; no grey area. She calls it, simply, "confused". I don't feel "confused" or unsure about my sexuality. In fact, ther is no quetsion in my mind that I have the tendancy to be attracted to anyone I care to be, male, female, ambiguous, etc. I have made this view clear to my mother before, concerning a male, bisexual friend of mine. She was aware of his so-called "confusion" (he is quite set in his attraction, like myself), and asked me one day "So....is [he] still confused...sexually?" "No, Mom. He's quite certain he's bisexual." She rolls her eyes at me. Anyway. It's not like I can just tell her I'm gay if I ever get a girlfriend, because if we happen to break up and I go out with a guy, my mother would be more confused than she believes me to be. Help? Comments? "me too"s?
Yeah, My moms the same way, she thinks im 100% gay and there is nothing i can say to change her mind. Granted, when i came out to he i thought i was 100% gay, but that has changed. Parents sometimes suck with that. I just dont talk about it around her. Hope that helps somewhat Good luck!
my mother would love me to be bi, infact she once asked me if I was sure i wasn't. mind you, thats only cause she's encourage me to date women and not men S
