Pansexual guys who crave cock

Seems today there are plenty of straight lifestyle guys who crave cock. I’m not talking about closeted gay or bi people. I’m talking about pansexual men. Guys who are open minded to the experience of something different.

I’m curious how many of you are straight lifestylers who are playing with cock from time to time, and how you go about getting what you want, especially now that craigslist removed personals.

 

Straight guys are not pansexuals!

From wikipedia" Pansexuality may be considered a sexual orientation in its own right or a branch of bisexuality, to indicate an alternative sexual identity.[3][6][7] Because pansexual people are open to relationships with people who do not identify as strictly men or women, and pansexuality therefore rejects the gender binary,[3][7] it is often considered a more inclusive term than bisexual."

I class myself as either bisexual or pansexual in that I am prepared to consider having sex with all genders. And as someone who actively looks for/enjoys cock I see a huge amount of married guys on sites who would go under the label of straight......but are really at least bisexual even if they deny it to themselves.

Loads of other contact sites other than Craigslist

Simon

 

My wife just read an article about the numerous "labels" placed on what people enjoy with/about their sexuality and it blew my mind that there are over 15 listed. Really? Is all this necessary? I personally think it's all bull shit and has been the work of the Land of Fruits & Nuts California along with their liberal politicians. Inspired by the LGBTQ for what? The gay/lesbian/transgender community has won the battle and has all it needs, is it necessary to force society to accept more? Does anyone have any idea the headaches it causes employers? GOD is going to strike down upon society for its continued misuse of HIS creation and honestly I wouldn't blame him for doing so. I just think society has gone too far with labeling how people express themselves sexually. I see no need for it what so ever as I indulge my sexuality and sexual acts as I feel with the people I interact with and see no reason or benefit in creating more and more labels placed upon what I find to be enjoyable. It's become a MADHOUSE!

 

In my experience there are waaay more men in their mid 40's and above, whose sex life with their wives is uninspiring to non existent.
I was married for 27 years to a woman whose sex drive died around 40 or so. In the past too many years than I would like to admit before we divorced, we stopped having sex period.
And that produces a LOT of unsatisfied desire. And that desire is going to manifest itself in some manner.
At the same time, every man on the planet is attracted to his own cock at least. So it isn't that huge of a leap to take that attraction, mixed in with a very unsatisfied sex life - and move to another man's cock.
I haves seen it online many-many times.

 

Dead right.....so many older married unsatisfied guys looking for sex, and the amount looking for cock indicates how many potential bisexual guys there are!

Simon '-)

 

Yes but I’d like to do so safely. The recent uptick in HIV has been declared connected to the rise of internet hookups. So knowing I want to avoid that...what is the best way to let someone know you’d like to play with their dick?

 

There is always a risk but going by the literature if you swallow and have no open mouth sores, then any virus is killed by your stomach acid.

As to how to let someone know that you want to suck their cock.....other than an online contact ...well probably hang about men's toilets and lick your lips frequently with an open mouth ...but you maybe will get some bad responses. That's why it's better setup online first!

Simon

 

Hahaha yeah I’m not that interested. I wouldn’t do that. I’ll just have to wait my turn.

 

Well u must be interested to be on here discussing it. And if u do nothing about it maybe your turn will never come!

Simon

 

Yes this place offers me a judgement free zone to at least express what’s on my mind despite not being able to engage. I’m a weirdo because I’m not attracted to dudes.... just cock activities. I’ve had a few adventures (like 4) that make for good stories. I enjoy telling girls those stories as it excites me to express myself openly.

 

You are most likely like many other 40 plus men, and even moreso 50 plus.
Their sex lives range from boring to none. They are still men, so they still get horny as often as they ever had. So most guys end up porn bingeing , myself included, and jerk off daily.
That get's old, so they start exploring "outward" within porn - usually shemales. Myself included. And then that starts getting old, so you start wandering into gay porn.... most likley young effeminate gays, myself included... but when that gets old...now what?
I wouldn't call your attraction bisexual or pansexual. Specifically because you have no intention of getting romantically involved, kissing....hugging.... nope. Affection....nope. Just the cock.
I don't know what you would call it. But i can identify.

 

Sounds exactly right....except the wife and I still have great sex....

 

Thank God I do now also. My 2nd wife, now 2 years going.... is awesome. In every way. Yet.... here I am.

 

Don't crave it, but accept it as an alternative to no bjs. With my wifes encouragement and permission I did it with our friend. It was a no strings,no hastle. At this point in life, it's all good. I should have taken them both up on it years ago.
Getting a bj was always good, but I find that he is a totally different level. Guilt led me to returning the favor. If I ever had any curiosity, he was the one to try it with. It wasn't until he had just finished giving me a superb bj and was getting up from kneeling between my legs.The HUGE tent in his gave a feeling of guilt. How could I leave him with a raging hard on like that, especially after he had just been gracious enough to take care of my needs. Before he could step back, I grabbed his hips and stopped him from walking away. I pulled his shorts down and his hard cock popped right up to full attention. I looked at it, took it in my hand and leaned in and took it into my mouth. I was like I could finally do it to myself. I did just what I would like done to me.
The only thing that made it better was when my wife watched as we did it. Never joined in, but coached and watched intently. Nothing wrong with doing something different, especially when its with your wifes approval and encouragement.
I don't have the desire or nerve to meet up with a stranger.

 

i started play with cock at work. I worked as a male dancer in a coed strip club. I started used to watch a few of the male dancers hooking up after the club was almost closed.

 

Northeast Pa. I'm 51, married, and kinda new to "pan". I love giving head and I really love a massive load of cum. I find it primitive, instinctual, and natural. The soft skin over the hard penis. Sucking the cock just like I like to have mine sucked... Getting that cummmm... Very addictive. I would like to be ass fucked but everything has got to be right. Finding a cock to suck is hard enough. I hope to report back sooner than later. Yeah, but beyond the cock and cum I have lil intrest. I don't even take reciprocation except for 2-3 times when I first began experimenting.

 

Tell me more about the contact sites, grinder sucks.

 

Same, if anything we have more sex. I just take the extra time to get her excited. I hope to experience mmf with her but she currently prefers just the fantasy of. I however have aquired myself a cock and cum lust.

 

Yep, just the cock, please