this is the only sensation i feel from my clit, we have tried all sorts of ways at stimulation but so far getting rid of this pain is immpossible for me, has anyone any suggestions as to why i feel this and what the hell to do, obvously i have never had an orgasm because of it. its been this way for as long as i can remember and im now 41 was thinking about using some sort of pain relieving gel, perhaps the baby teething ones as they will taste ok for him but take away the pain for me, perhaps the nice feeling might start happening then?
I wouldn't use anything like that, try using a desensitizing lube. Check with your Dr. you shouldn't have pain all the time in your clit.
i would have thought that if it was safe for babies mouths then it would be ok to use on my clit? just a tiny amount as im not trying to deaden it, just enough to take the pain away and let any pleasureable feelings there might be, being masked by the pain, to show through. i would have thought your idea of the desentizing lube would have been worse
the pain i get is like a double ended pin between the labia which then moves to the sensation of glass being rubbed into my clit!!!! ouch!!!!!! but as this is the only sensation i get, in our hunt for getting me to orgasm this is what we have been chasing, we use a vib with little sucess, i feel it drags a sensation out of me, one that he calls an orgasm, but i never feel finnished, i dont contract at all. the pain lessens for a while but then biulds again after a couple of hours, without using the vib the pain has brought me to tears many times
I've been wracking my brain over the last few weeks and ill have some more stuff posted up hear for you by this time tomorrow, but I think it really dose come down to either a mental or physiological issue, and no amount of sexual techniques are going to sort that, and if you are getting Paine in your clit (not just during or after direct stimulation, which actually is a conundrum anyway) to me it sounds like you might have an issue with blood flow or something similar, and should go to your gynecologist and doc to fined out if there's anything more seriously wrong. If your getting nothing from what I have posted already (and it's not a physical issue) then your putting up some serious psychological blocks, either because of your husband or because of some traumatic experience in your early life. (I know I’ve said this all before, but it helps me to go over things, gets em clear in my head to fined a solution lol)
That is definitely not normal. You may have some kind of adhesions-I used to know a girl that got yeast infections that caused globs of stuff to form in between her clit and the hood and kept it inflamed and sore. Whatever's causing it, that isn't normal.
