Over 65 , married , and like masturbating & nudity when I am alone

Ok I am over 65 and married , our sex life has slowed a little, my wife has no idea of the things I do when I am alone ( get nude , drive nude,masturbate ) we still fuck occasionally. I wonder if any one else male or female does this

 

Few married men over 60 are having any sex, or very little sex, with post menopausal wives.

Most of us revert to 'the schoolboy option' of masturbation, often assisted by computer porn. I have been doing so for 27 years.

The lucky ones, like me, have the support of their wives in this situation.

Good luck!

 

I've never told her what I do when I am alone, but about 6 months ago her sister came up on our back porch and saw me nude vacuuming the floor, she told my wife and it was a joke for a while

 

I don't do the nudity too much because I have to go outside often with the dog and I live in the city. But definitely masturbating more and actually loving it.

 

Yes

Yes, you are not the only one who is in the same situation. My wife is not interested anymore so I masturbate 2 or 3 times a week. If she like sex I do otherwise, I masturbate next to her in the bed while she slept.

 

Yes

Yes, you are not the only one who has the same situation. My wife is not interested

 

Our initial deal was that I would forego sex after menopause if i could satisfy my own needs as and when I needed. I have never felt the need to conceal and being caught being "busy" under the shower or at computer is no big deal.

Wife simply has NIL interest anymore.

 

I only masturbate when I am alone , I dont think I could masturbate next to her or even tell her what I do

 

I see your situation

 

no sex here so I masturbate all I can, she even likes to watch sometimes

 

We still have sex once or twice a month which is nowhere near enough for me so I masturbate 2-3 times a week.

 

Wow, I guess I should consider myself lucky. My wife is going through menopause now and she has actually had an increase in her libido. Everything from increased arousal (wetness!!) to near honeymoon levels of passion!

I guess you get out what you put in (no pun intended!).

 

Good luck, but the ovaries shut down at menopause, and that stops the supply not only of eggs, but also the female sex hormones.

It is a natural process we all have to live with and how we do that is up to us. Get back to us when you are about 55.

 

Most people might think like that but I’ve given older women orgasms that said they didn’t feel horny any more after menopause, I met a 55 year old Indonesian lady who said she hadn’t had an orgasm in five years and after three months of us talking about sex I convinced her to let me eat her pussy and she had a good looking cute body naked she looked much younger and I sucked on her pussy lips and clitoris and when she got close to orgasm I sucked on her clitoris and her orgasm seemed intense and lasted maybe a minute she tried to push me away but I wouldn’t let her I hung on to her butt and kept sucking and after her body twitched and spasmed for several minutes and then I finally stuck my dick in her pussy and ejaculated and later she told she had never had that intense of an orgasm ever before she said when she was younger she mostly orgasmed from masturbation not intercourse

 

Moving towards my late sixties I have noticed my frequency of masturbation has reduced. From 5 to 7 or more times weekly I now masturbate about 3 and no more than 5 times a week. When I need to release sexual tension I have a private and isolated place for masturbation. Once or twice a month I get the urge for warm pussy or another pair of hands to bring me off. When that occurs I venture out to where this is taken care of. I have spent the last day and a half nude even venturing out side, albeit for a short period due to the weather. My wife knows all of this yet I keep the details of my sexual adventures to myself always.

 

Wife can't have sex anymore, but she has alternate means of sexual satisfaction. She always encouraged me to masturbate.While she says watching me stroking my cock is boring, she still likes to watch my large ejaculations.

 

I’m naked at home much of the time. Wife doesn’t seem to care much but she has absolutely zero interest in any sort of sexual contact. I’d be happy with a handjob but it ain’t happening. I masturbate at least once a day in private.

 

I’ve been with several post menopausal women and they don’t get horny like they did when they were younger but their clitorises still work I’d suck on them and they’d have orgasms my ex who is now 73 said a few times a year she’ll dream about something erotic and wake and masturbate and have an orgasm, she said her clit still gets hard when she masturbates but she doesn’t get horny like she used to , so menopause doesn’t shut down the sex on some women

 

Wife doesn't enjoy sex anymore (68) so encourages me to jerk off. Sometimes she will ask me if I recently masturbated and if I say no she ask me to give her "a show". Usually after awhile she wants to finish me with a hand job.

 

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