Out but a bit lost still...

Hi everyone!

I've only just recently come out to my family and friends after keeping my sexuality to myself for a couple of years. Although people have mostly been very supportive of me I feel more lonely and lost having come out when I thought I'd feel the exact opposite I don't really know or hang out with any other gay girls so I always feel a bit like the odd one out lol. I guess I'm looking to meet different people that I can relate to and broaden my lesbian horizons somewhat

 

Welcome I see you're from London, me too!

Hope you like it here

 

Coming out's not really that easy ei? Took me years before I've done it. Being out finally gives you freedom, just be ready to those haters a.k.a homophobes you'll come across every now and then. Anyway, it's just the society who sets boundaries in all these. Hmm what others think of us is none of our business. What matters is that we're happy I hope you'll have fun here as much as I do by just being here for two days

 

Welcome

 

Welcome

 

welcome twinkle :daisy:

 

Hi Twinkletoes.

Coming out is a personal decision, which frees you from a certain amount of pretending to be something that you're not. But as you have seen, it brings its own issues too.

The thing to remember, though, is that by and large it is absolutely nobody's business but your own who you choose to take to bed with you, and what you choose to do with them when they get there. And I think that this is what bugs me about the whole anti-gay thing, homophobia, call it what you will. The fact is that my private life is exactly that: MY ... PRIVATE ... life. It is not theirs, it is not public, it is not open for discussion (except to those with whom I choose to discuss it).

But you'll find that people here are very accepting and I hope you'll fit right in, because they're a great online community. One of the greatest, in fact.

Hugs,

Becky