orgasms after birth

so my gf has a baby. and iv been tryin to get her to do her kegel exercises, but im pretty sure her gspot orgams are weaker and harder to obtain now she has a kid,.

does anyone know much about orgasms after childbirth.
she just really needs to do her kegels doesnt she? tighten up her pussy and have better orgasms?

 

hmmm shit ay.

she is 18 and year baby is almost 2. her vagina tore when she gave birth and had to stitch it. ummm hmm.
her mum actually takes care of the baby the majority of the time

so once u have a baby its the end to good sex i guess....

without any other information do u thinki should start fresh with a new gf?

 

its not my baby!!!!

 

Start with a new girlfriend? wow, you sound like a dick.

 

oh so u understand whats it like to date somone with a kid. when im young myself.
ur a dickhead.

 

If you don't want the responsibility of a kid, get the fuck out. If you want her, you have to take the kid as well. If you don't care for her that much then what's the point? Move the fuck on.

 

Mmmmhm.

 

This type of conversation is so useless. It only brings temporary feelings of need to change things. Temporary feelings shame, with no direction like the shame is meant to bring.

It so ironic.

I have no real knowledge on the subject. You obviously will just have to wait to see. If you care about her even a bit I guesse wait. If not try and spread your horizons.

 

Before you start fresh with a new gf you should probably grow up.

Maybe thats harsh, but I find it hard to believe (or maybe don't want to) that someone over 16 could think they would get support from a community like this with that attitude. Seems made up to me. Deliberately provocative.

But my advice, if you really want it, is if you are only interested in sex right now then no gf would probably be the way to go, and find girls who don't want commitment. AND always use a condom - especially if she doesn't mention it! (its important for you, but quite frankly I'd rather you didn't reproduce)

Good luck

 

hmm yeah. only time will tell.

somtimes getting opionions from outsiders that dont know any of the other personal info and just the plain facts have certain views and opinions in which i want to know.

i want to know how i will be looked upon, being with a girl that has a kid.

will people feel sorry for me? and stuff. i think people would. but i dont know how people view things, so christ i just came for a little help.
its actually quite stressfull the situation, iv been with her for over a year tho.

 

You think it's stressful to be with a woman who has a child? Imagine being the one who had the parental right and responibilty?

She probably doesn't want to have sex because of your attitude, regardless of if you say it, it's easy to tell.

 

we have sex on a daily basis...

but yeah she made the mistake so its her problem... her problem....i am stressed cause i love this girl but dont want to take on her big mistake. mistake that she got pregnant at 15, and there is no father to speak of.

as in im young myself, i could meet plenty of other woman that dont have such baggage at such a young age.
sure its mean, but i have to look out for myself. i only live once. i didnt get pregnant.

 

Yeah. Grow up.

 

my friends sister is 18. she has 2 kids. her boyfriend just left her.

my gf has one kid. she is 18. her boyfriend left her before was born and never to be seen since.

i am with this girl. its not my kid. i do stuff with this kid. i play with this kid. we take this kid to the zoo n stuff. this is not my kid, but i do these things, when those real dads have fucked off. so dont say shit about me.
i have been with this girl for over a year.
i shouldnt be the one getting shit, the fucking fathers that fucked off should be. there probably sailing thro life, while somone like me helps pick up the slack and helps raise a kid that isnt even mine. so fuck all of u.
no one understands shit.

 

Haha, maybe it's all you. For me, sex (with my husband) got WAY better after having a kid.
You sound like you think you're doing something incredible just for being with her. Fuck, if the kid's that big of a burden let it go, the poor child doesn't need that shit. If my stepdad acted like he deserved thanks and praise every day for being a real father to children that weren't his, I probably would have kicked him in the balls.

 

well yeah not many people want to take on the commitment of having a kid. thats the truth of it.

expecially when were at such a young age. its not like were older and iv been married before and have my own kids you know.

 

Yeah but the thing is it doesn't sound like you are taking on the commitment of having a kid.

When you say things like "Maybe it's time for a new girlfriend?" just because she's having trouble orgasming, it doesn't really stand up.

But you are right, not many people would do it. And I applaud you for doing it, I just hope you'll stay with her if you love her and not act like this child deserves shit from you just because he's not your sperm.

 

wow. you might as well attempt to get a new girlfriend, because it doesn't seem as if you're good enough to be in a relationship. she's 18 & has a child, and you're worried about getting laid?

wow.

 

welll i am a guy so yes. thats all guys really think about. the only time a male isnt thinking about getting laid is the few minits after they just came. true fact.