Orgasm Trouble After Bad Iud Experience

My girlfriend got an IUD last year. When we had sex, the string on the end (used by the Dr. to remove it later) poked me in a very painful way. After this happened the first 10 times, her doc trimmed the string, but it still poked me quite often. Finally, she figured out a way to move the string so it didn't hit me.

Now, I am unable to orgasm during sex. Every time I start to let go and really get into it, all I can do is worry about getting poked. I thought this would gradually fade, but after a year, it's still a big problem. Any suggestions for de-programming this fear?

 

Thats how IUD's work didn'tcha know that? lol

My ex had one before we were married and the first time I got poked during a deep thrust I was like,
"Yowch!...yeah thats some effective birth control!" lol

She eventually had it removed for medical reasons.

Sorry about your problem, and I don't know what to tell you except just don't go as deep.

 

I sort of like how it tickles my pecker..