Orgasm duration before sensitivity sets in

As is the case with many women, my wife enjoys clitoral stimulation via my tongue during oral sex. However, when she orgasms, she can only tolerate a few seconds of continued stimulation during the orgasm before the area becomes too sensitive. Curious if this is a fairly common duration for women.

As for myself, I can tolerate 5-10 seconds of continued stimulation during my orgasm (either oral or intercourse) before sensitivity gets too great. However, if I'm high, the duration can be 3x that.

Anyone care to share their experiences (ladies and/or gents)?

 

Sometimes she's like "no no..don't touch...too sensitive" and I def have to back off. Other times you can tell it's sensitive but she'll take more. Usually starts another climax for her.

For me, the tip gets REAL sensitive right after I cum and if it's a blowjob the deeper she takes my cock in her mouth the easier it is to deal with a real sensitive tip. If she swirls her tongue around the shaft, that's OK. If she swirls on the tip I jump all over the place. If I get a handjob, the tip is just as sensitive after I cum and if she plays with the tip, I jump like crazy. After 30 seconds or so it gets better.